Hi Ladies!!! I'm New.

I think she's ttcing tho so 's trying to have a baby

Yikes.

To: michelle1981
no none of my pregnanies were planned, I was on birth control, and u know how that can go sometimes. I was preggo in sept. 04, dec. 04 (chemical pregnancy), and in may 05( I was on medicine and didn't know I was preg., the med's made the baby have birth defects and die). Now i'm ttc, but then I wasn't.

And I just came across this site, and I saw how many girls questions weren't being answered and figured I should tell them about the other board on pregnancyweekly.Com that I belonged to bcuz their really nice, helpful, and not so judgemental.


To:19mommy
yea it was pretty emotionaly draining!

To: anyone who says i've lost my babies bcuz it wasn't my time. Think about this. If it wasn't then why would gurls who are totally unfit give birth to babies everyday. Just bcuz some1 doesn't miscarry and gives birth to their baby makes them more qualified to be their time to have a child? Now tell me how much sense does that make?







~monica~

I believe it's all about gods will....Not to sound religious...
I lost a child too this past june...I know how it feels.
You're young, you have lots of time for motherhood.

Ya, I know, plenty. I want my baby tho, not to replace the others tho. I keep dreaming of this baby gurl and it looks exactly like me and my bf. She's always smiling in my dream and i'm holding her. I started having those dreams about her like a month after the miscarriage (in july).






~monica~

I understand the feeling of wanting....I do too and I already have 2.

I would do anything for my boys....Anything! They are my world. I was your age when I conceived my first so I know how hard it is to raise children young. I'm not trying to say that if I could turn back time I would, because I wouldn't.

We got married after my first, finished school after...Believe me it's harder to do those things after you have a child then before. What i'm trying to say is you have so much time....Think about it.

I'm not passing judgment on you.

I can't wait until my little goochiee woochieee woooo is born.

I wanna kiss him and hug him and just.


Awwwwwwwwwwww

<3

Hey barbara where in toronto are you? Gta?

I live in north york.....

Well there's not a lot of canadians on this site......Only a few :lol:

To: michelle1981


thanks and ya, I know what you mean. No one ever told me life woule be easy and as we can see it isn't. There hasn't really been anything in my life that has really made it hard tho.....Yet, I guess. I won't be raising my baby alone either! The job that dontay (fiance), has is very well paying. It's a job he got through his college (in machine shop). And i'm about to get my job too, so i'm not really worried about money or anything. And after the first one, I don't think I really want another one lol... Maybe....




~monica~