Ok I just had a baby a month and three
days ago.. The dr said I cant have sex
untill next monday but that I can do other
things. So I realize first hand that our
baby is taking alot of our time plus he is
a teacher, bball coach and a part time
student. So he has alot on his plate ok
but at the same time I am like I am a stay
at home house wife and a mother and if you
all know anything about that its hard as
hell to do.
So I have been wearing sexy clothes and
yes we start kissing but that is it and
when she is sleeping and we could be
together even just holding one another he
is on the computer or watching tv or even
playing x- box
i dont really feel that he still wants me
concedering that he is doing it him self
and not letting me be apart of it. I try
to be with him but I just dont understand.
Its like I ordered him some lingere for
our anniv that is the fourth of dec but I
am like will it even matter I dont even
think hell notice..
Were leaving her with my inlaws so maybe
that will help..
Please give me addvice
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
??????????? Posted: 11-17-05 11:50am
Can no one help?
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Jessica_CF20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 207 Location: NM
Posted: 11-17-05 17:09pm
Well ..... Hopefully I can help did he
see you give birth? Its hard for alot of
men to have sex for awhile with the woman
they seen give birth. If not try just
talking to him I always start by asking if
there is anything he wants to talk about
if he says yes there is an open window
girl run and open the door lol but if he
says no then tell him that you would like
to talk to him ...... With his full
attention and go from there good luck hun
keep me posted
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chingchang
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 4
Posted: 11-25-05 05:31am
What you're experiencing is normal. My
advice is to engage in open and honest
communication and extend a lot of
affection to him. Tell him that although
you have a baby now you still want to be
his lover and desire him. You'll get a
reaction.
