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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Tribute to Momma, Daddy And Brad
Posted: 12-10-03 06:41am
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I dont know if this is where I should put
this, but my brother and I are both
depressed rite now and this is our tribute
to our family that was taken from us six
years ago today.
On december 10th, six years ago, three
wonderful smart loving people were taken
from this world cruely and left behind a
nine year old boy, and a 14 year old girl
to fend for themselves.
They were on their way to a huge
basketball tournament when they were hit
by someone who did not stop for the red
light and were pushed over the edge of a
cliff that had a sixty foot drop.
Six years ago I recieved a devastating
knock on the door by 3 police officers
that I will never forget. But it has made
us stronger and we will always remember
the parents that loved us so much, did
everything for us and helped us fulfill
our dreams. We will always remember our
brother who taught us both how to skate so
we were both on hockey teams, how to play
all the sports we were both involved in
and showed us just about anything!
Six years later you have a 15 year old
young man who still plays all these sports
and is going to be a wonderful father and
husband someday. And ...And there is me.
A pregnanct 19 year old, who has worked
since she was 14 to raise her brother and
herself, go to school and keep food on the
table and clothes on our backs, who would
not change the way things happened because
she thinks that it was what god wanted but
who misses her family deeply and is
assured that she will meet up with them
again someday and that they are watching
over us all.
I love you momma, daddy and brad, we will
never forget you. Every year we post a
tribute to you and we always will.
Love always melissa and aj o'hara
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003
Posts: 205
Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
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Posted: 12-14-03 23:31pm
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I am very, very sorry for your loss. But
it sounds like it made you the person that
you are today. How did you raise your
brother? Didn't the government put you
in their custody?
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 12-15-03 09:05am
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Hi, no the government didn't take us, we
spent 6 months in the house our parents
had owned, I had a friend of my parents
arrange to have it sold, and then we moved
into a friends apartment building, I got
up went to school, took aj to school too,
brought him home where he stayed, he
always had supper that he just had to heat
up, I went to work until 9:00 then I came
home for my supper break and helped aj
with him homework, put him to bed, went
back to work until 11:00 or 11:30 and then
came home did my homework and stuff. It
wasn't easy but we were discrete enough
that no one noticed well government wise
anyway. And I kept aj in all the sports
and activities he was in before. It was
life, we'd lost everyone else and weren't
about to lose each other too.
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003
Posts: 205
Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
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Posted: 12-23-03 01:24am
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Well, it must have been extremely hard on
you, but it sounds like all in all it was
the best thing for both of you. Too bad
you were forced to grow up so quickly, but
i'm sure your brother appreciates it. I
am sorry it took me so long to respond to
this, I didn't get an email when you
replied, so I forgot. Have a merry
christmas!
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 12-25-03 11:49am
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Mommy_2_b or is it mummy that is by now?
Your tribute was heartwrenching yet
heartwarming & as i'm definitely old
enough to be your mother, let me say that
your mother, father & brother must be
extremely proud of the amazing young woman
yu have become & i'm sure equally of
the amazing young man aj has become thanks
to your hard work & guts.
Anyone would be proud to have you both as
their children & I can only hope that
my 2 grow up to be as good, strong, gutsy
& incredible as the two of you.
Merry christmas & a happy new year to
you both (or rather to you all!!)
cheri
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 02-18-04 18:38pm
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Ignore this crap she came out with.We just
found out she is a liar who isnt
pregnant.Shes 16 yrs old,her family are
alive and she has no fiancee.She lied
about everything
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ERICA1121
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 252
Location: DETROIT
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Posted: 02-18-04 19:13pm
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Yes, she came into the teen pregnancy
forum and completely lied about who she
was. She lied to all of us for a very
long time. We were told that she lost the
twins she was pregnant with just recently.
Also she included a letter apologizing to
all of us for her lying. Feel free to
come to the teen pregnancy forum purple
and check it out for your self. She is
just now trying to get symapthy for
something that does not exisist in a diff
forum. Girls from the forum were even
trying to call her house and her dad
answered the phone. But he is supposed to
be dead. Purple, please go read the
posts. U donot deserve to be lied to and
neither does anyone else. ~ erica.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-18-04 19:25pm
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That lying health forum! Come to teen
pregnancy adn read her lies!!
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-18-04 22:12pm
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What a health forum! We stayed up all
night calling hospitals and her house
worried about her! Dont feel bad for this
joke she's playing!
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 02-19-04 09:09am
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You know - what goes around comes around
& that includes when people lie - what
really worries me is not that she has lied
to us but that she has posted so many
times & I have no doubt that many of
them gave advice & some people may
have acted on it to their detriment.
Lying to us & herself - well we can
deal & she'll get her dues in time.
But giving false advice lacking in
knowledge, experience &/or validity
that is so very wrong & I wish there
was someone/somewhere on this forum that
could (& would have the guts) to bar
people like this because they can cause
aloty of harm to some very good people who
come here for help & honest advice
based on knowledge & experience. It
is them I worry about not these people who
lie & cheat just to get attention.
Thanks to all who posted telling me the
truth about this person. Unfortunately
for me, I will continue to take people at
face value (until proven/shown i'm
wrong!!) because even if I sometimes think
a person is lying I believe that unless I
know for sure otherwise that they are
here for help & I will give whatever I
can to anyone I can.
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 02-19-04 09:53am
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What in the hell kinda person are
you??????????? You are one sick
person--- oh and your soooooooooooooooooo
sorry -huh- sick b-
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 02-19-04 10:00am
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This is the exact same post word-to
word-she put on the pregnancy post --
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 02-19-04 10:21am
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Adormer221 if you are talking about me I
suggest you shut up!! & fast!! I did
not post this on the pregnancy site &
I am not sick nor sorry!!!!
I suggest that if you want to be offensive
that you make it clear who you are being
offensive to & if your post was not
meant for me then again make it clear who
you are abusing.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-19-04 10:36am
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Purple, admore was talking about
melissa...She posted this same bs in the
pregnancy forum a while back!
Jennifer 
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 02-19-04 10:57am
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Jennifeyou may be mad but I assure you
that if admore can't speak/post in such a
way as to make herself clear then she will
have alot more people lkike me a hell of
alot madder than you  
so while I thank you for explaining for
her I personally would prefer to have the
explanation from the horses mouth i.E from
admore herself rather than some follower.
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 02-19-04 11:00am
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Gosh com down purple- I didnt even read
your post I was talking about melissa---
gezzzzzzzzzz
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 02-19-04 11:02am
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Geezzzzzz com down purple- I was talking
about meliisa-- I didnt even read your
post- sorry for the cunfussion but -
thanks for calling me a horse-
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 02-19-04 11:02am
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Sorry I ment to pm you but instead it went
here- thats why theres two--
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 02-19-04 11:31am
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It's not a problem that you posted instead
of "pm"ing me.
But I did not call you a horse - don't you
lot have the saying straight from the
horses mouth?? It just means straight
from the mouth of the author or person who
made the statement.
I also stand by my original
request/suggestion that you make it clear
who you are refering to thereby avoiding
confusion.
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