My Boyfriend's Old Life Style Cramping Mine Posted: 12-10-03 08:49am
Hello, I have a recent dilema sorta that I
need a little help on. I would ask my
friends but I don't want them to have a
bad opinion of him.
Before me, he lived with his
ex-girlfriend, his best-friend and his
girlfriend. These people are into raving
and partying. I have no issue with that.
His friend is a really nice guy but i'm
starting to notice they really like their
drugs too much. They find every excuse to
get high. I'd say every time i've seen
them they've at least smoked pot. With
this, I don't have an issue...What I do
have an issue with is their ecstacy usage.
And my boyfriend was into it too. When
we first started dating, he told me he's
over it. That type of life style and
culture is absaloutely not my thing. But
these are his friends and I accept that
but do not accept that he's been doing it
too. He's only done it three
times...Twice with me, once after he said
he wouldn't and I told him after the last
time I am not comfortable with him doing
it and it's not part of my life style. He
said he understands and won't do it
anymore. Last night, he brought up doing
e on new years. He says, "i can do drugs
if I want" and I said, "that's fine, then
you can celebrate by yourself because I
won't be there..I'm not going to be around
my boyfriend high when i'm uncomfortable
with the situation" he said nothing but
sighed a few times and fell asleep. I
have to talk to him about how serious I am
that this is not my choice in life style
and I will not be with someone that does e
and these people put nothing but a bad
influence on him. What should I say to
him that will really make him understand
this is not cool with me and not seem like
i'm telling him what to do but that if he
chooses to be with me, he has to leave his
past behind!
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honeycoco
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Posted: 12-12-03 22:22pm
My only advice is to be careful because he
could eventually draw you into this
lifestyle and it wouldn't be good
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