Hey everyone..Ive been wit 3 guys..Sad I
know I regret two..But the first one I was
wit and im still with him..But now I dont
ever want sex..Most the time I just do it
cuz my bf wants it..I dont give it to him
alot just maybe once a week..And I
duno..Before the others I always wanted
sex..Now I hardly ever want it..And then
when I do have sex..Sometimes it hurts
inside me..And then I can never get
horny..Wat is wrong wit me?Help plz..For
me and my boyfriends sake..Thanks a bunch
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LuckyGirl70305
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Posted: 11-10-05 16:44pm
Hey actually...I have the same problem...I
have been with 4 guys and before I was all
up for having sex anytime it didnt
matter...And with the guy I am with now it
was like that for the first 2months...And
now that I live with him I dont want to
have sex with him...I can never get
horny...And when we do have sex it is
cause he wants to ...Let me know if you
find out anything
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flynlow3
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Loss of Sex Drive? Posted: 11-11-05 23:13pm
Are either of you on a form of birth
control? Some women are effected by it.
Oral contraceptives are broken down by the
liver and the hormones cause a loss of
libido or sex drive.
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tphelps2008
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Posted: 11-12-05 10:15am
Yes I am on birth control..Heres something
thats kinda off the subject but id like to
know wat it is ...Me and my bf had sex
thursday..And im all sore...And like my
clit hurts and it itches..I duno wats
wrong..And I have really bad discharge..I
shave down there and I seem to get more
discharge when I shave like it gets
irritated or something I have no idea..The
part about gettin sore has happened alot
lately ...Could it be from us not having
alot of sex and then when we do it just
irriates me..None of this happened wit the
other ppl I have had sex wit...Help plz
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flynlow3
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Sore Posted: 11-12-05 10:37am
You will get sore because you are no
longer stretched down there. The more
often you have sexual intercourse, the
more you muscle will relax and stretch.
This exact same thing is happening to my
gf. Since she went on the pill, we
basically stopped having sex. She has no
drive. When we do, it is painful because
she has tightened up. Now its not
enjoyable for her. Thats why im looking
at other options for bc. The discharge
part im not sure about. Id see your dr as
soon as you could get in if your irritated
and getting more than normal discharge
though.
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sh5nton
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Posted: 11-17-05 10:08am
Yeah I am having the same problem, I have
no sex drive. I'm 20 and I love my
boyfriend, we've been together for 3 years
but I just lose interest. I have never
had an orgasm so sex is always the same
but I just enjoy making my boyfriend
happy. But I have stopped the pill for 3
months now and it's probably the same if
not worse without it.
When I do get interested, I get bored
really quickly. Maybe it's just a short
attention span problem.
I just figured it was stress, are there
pills available to girls apart from horney
goats weed?
The grass is greener on the other side of
the fence. Well, main reason I think you
have lost interest in sex is because your
relationship (probably) does not provide
you with the chasing lust or the feeling
that you are wanted other than just
sexually. If your bf makes you chase him
and without any sexual advance(staright to
second base, next third, sometimes just
home, you girls know what I am saying),
may be you will be willing to do it. And
why does it hurt inside? Because you
search for something worth your while and
not just sex, mental stimulation,
stimulating conversation and something to
dream about.... Let me know if I am
right!
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betterknow
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Re: No Sex Desire Posted: 11-17-05 10:15am
The grass is greener on the other side of
the fence. Well, main reason I think you
have lost interest in sex is because your
relationship (probably) does not provide
you with the chasing lust or the feeling
that you are wanted other than just
sexually. If your bf makes you chase him
and without any sexual advance(staright to
second base, next third, sometimes just
home, you girls know what I am saying),
may be you will be willing to do it. And
why does it hurt inside? Because you
search for something worth your while and
not just sex, mental stimulation,
stimulating conversation and something to
dream about.... Let me know if I am
right!
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sh5nton
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Posted: 11-17-05 10:20am
My boyfriend is also my bestfriend, we
share everything. I do think i'm missing
something, more adventurous but even then,
it still hurts to try anytging too
different. Maybe we haven't connected on
that deeper level but how do I get to
that. Is it possible to be too good of
friends even though you still find
eachother sexually arousing?
I'm confused now
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daisydobydoo
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Posted: 11-17-05 12:16pm
I met my husband when I was 16. He too
was my best friend. We could talk about
anything and everything. We were also
able to experiment sexually with eachother
and be totally comfortable with it. We
have had some awesome sex. I've now been
with him for 19 years and married to him
for 13 years. We are still having great
sex. Over the years i've learned that
while you are in love w/ him the better
sex you have. When you fall out of love,
the sex is still good but it's the love
making that you are missing.
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pixma
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Posted: 11-18-05 12:16pm
I can honestly say that I don't think my
partner and I have ever "made love"
actually no I lied once!! He moved my
hair away from my face, looked at me for a
long time and said "god I love you
sharleen"!! How could I forget that
moment!!!!!:-)
other than that we just f*#k!!! And like
the rest of you ladies when it is
convenient for him!!Dont you just hate it
when you could be just bumming around in a
singlet and undies for comfort (tend to do
that when I have my period) and he gets
all randy....Makes a move knowing full
well that he not going to get any!!!! And
then gets cranky!!!!!!!!
I love my man, verbally I tell him
everyday but a nice pash session and
plenty of cuddles would do me justice then
for him to bend me over the couch!!
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Jadestone
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Posted: 11-19-05 19:30pm
Wow you guys are all talking about me.
But....I have been with my man for 9 years
and sex is great when we have it...But I
don't want it as much. Even though its
great?! I think its stress related
partially but also I don't want him to
just come at me and not give me other
kinds of affection. I want to feel that
he needs me more than for just sex.
Intellectual talk, and maybe just
affection without sex once in awhile.
With a busy schedule its hard to go all
the way as much and I get stressed out
when he gets upset about not getting it
which further stresses me out!
Women are aroused by sex emotionally not
physically it seems. I need comfort,
security and trust now and then I get
excited!?
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