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Q: How Easy Is It to Get Pregnant?
asked by: Nalchan on November 13th, 2005
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Me and my girlfriend don't have sex, but when we are making out I sometimes secrete the fluid that comes from your cowper's gland. The other day, I touched it with my finger (out of curiosity), and I didn't wash my hand before I touched her upper leg. There wasn't very much on my finger (or it was dry), otherwise i'm sure she would have noticed. We were both dressed, but afterwards she had a shower. I'm probably (or more likely, definately) just being extremely paranoid but what do you think is the possibilty of her getting pregnant. I need some sort of consolation, although this is probably a ludicrous suggestion.
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tsweitzer
replied on November 13th, 2005
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I doubt very highly that she is pregnant..Sperm can not hit air or it will die...You actually have to have vaginal sex and actaully ejaculate for there to be a chance of her actually being pregnant. And even if this has happened it still does not mean that she is automatically pregnant.
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sbslove
replied on November 13th, 2005
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Consider she had pants on I would not worry about it, plus u said u touched her thigh not her vagina so it's very unlikely, if not next to impossible for her to get pregnant by u touching her thigh. So don't worry about it and just be more careful next time.
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redblueyellow
replied on October 6th, 2007
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Hey
I am facing not the same type situation. My girlfriend and I do not have sex, but we do grind eachother. One time, it go a little out of hand, she was not wearing clothing, and she was on top grinding. Now after I had "peaked" I immidiately got her off and went and cleaned up. Now the sperm went up onto my stomach and I do not believe that any got on her at all. But, she missed her period. She is as of right now two days late. Now she is in college and very stressed and has been working out like crazy, both of which could effect her. I need to know what is the chance that if any did get on the outside of her that she could have gotten pregnat and what is it ever normal for girls to miss schedualed periods and for how long. Thanks
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LikeWater
replied on October 6th, 2007
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There's really no chance she's pregnant. Don't worry.
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young Girl
replied on October 7th, 2007
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tsweitzer wrote:
I doubt very highly that she is pregnant..Sperm can not hit air or it will die...You actually have to have vaginal sex and actaully ejaculate for there to be a chance of her actually being pregnant. And even if this has happened it still does not mean that she is automatically pregnant.


actually thats false info
sperm just doesnt hit vair and die

Confused and PRE EJACULATE CAN GET YOU PREGNANT
so please reaserch before you post
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young Girl
replied on October 7th, 2007
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Re: Hey
redblueyellow wrote:
I am facing not the same type situation. My girlfriend and I do not have sex, but we do grind eachother. One time, it go a little out of hand, she was not wearing clothing, and she was on top grinding. Now after I had "peaked" I immidiately got her off and went and cleaned up. Now the sperm went up onto my stomach and I do not believe that any got on her at all. But, she missed her period. She is as of right now two days late. Now she is in college and very stressed and has been working out like crazy, both of which could effect her. I need to know what is the chance that if any did get on the outside of her that she could have gotten pregnat and what is it ever normal for girls to miss schedualed periods and for how long. Thanks


shes NOT pregnant
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krystineM
replied on October 12th, 2007
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how easy is it go get pregnant if you have unprotected sex everytime you have sex, and your sexually active about 3 times a week, and one time your partner came inside you
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young Girl
replied on October 12th, 2007
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krystineM wrote:
how easy is it go get pregnant if you have unprotected sex everytime you have sex, and your sexually active about 3 times a week, and one time your partner came inside you


okay...are you serious?
Confused
yes you could get pregnant
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krystineM
replied on October 12th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
krystineM wrote:
how easy is it go get pregnant if you have unprotected sex everytime you have sex, and your sexually active about 3 times a week, and one time your partner came inside you


okay...are you serious?
Confused
yes you could get pregnant


this is my first time experiencing something like this, so if it seems like im panicing a bit and ask a question tha sounds stupid but i left out while on period. ive never gone through this before this is the first time this has happened to me
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young Girl
replied on October 12th, 2007
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krystineM wrote:
the_girlfreind wrote:
krystineM wrote:
how easy is it go get pregnant if you have unprotected sex everytime you have sex, and your sexually active about 3 times a week, and one time your partner came inside you


okay...are you serious?
Confused
yes you could get pregnant


this is my first time experiencing something like this, so if it seems like im panicing a bit and ask a question tha sounds stupid but i left out while on period. ive never gone through this before this is the first time this has happened to me


yeah but your on your period

you are not pregnant just like weve told you in your other posts!
take a test next time you miss your period if your worried
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Shanyan
replied on October 12th, 2007
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I don't know about everyone else and I am not trying to be rude........but is this Krystine person for real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like I can't even believe the questions that she is asking. I'm sorry but man I really hope that she doesn't have a child anytime soon. She really needs to grow up and educate herself before she even thinks about having children!!!!!!
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young Girl
replied on October 12th, 2007
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Shanyan wrote:
I don't know about everyone else and I am not trying to be rude........but is this Krystine person for real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like I can't even believe the questions that she is asking. I'm sorry but man I really hope that she doesn't have a child anytime soon. She really needs to grow up and educate herself before she even thinks about having children!!!!!!


couldnt have said it better myself! makes my head hurt lol
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krystineM
replied on October 12th, 2007
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ok go ahead.
say what you want. wont say anything "rude" to anyone,
ill just sit back and let you, all be rude.
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Shanyan
replied on October 12th, 2007
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No kidding!!!1
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krystineM
replied on October 12th, 2007
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is this not a forum for teens/ adults to post questions and concerns and what not?
that is all im doing.
sorry if my questions sound stupid, or if your tired of hearing them over and over again...but weren't any of you iin the situation that im in now once in your life?
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young Girl
replied on October 12th, 2007
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krystineM wrote:
is this not a forum for teens/ adults to post questions and concerns and what not?
that is all im doing.
sorry if my questions sound stupid, or if your tired of hearing them over and over again...but weren't any of you iin the situation that im in now once in your life?


yes and we took advice form people
and werent rude about it

like you said say what we want
thin what you want as well
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krystineM
replied on October 12th, 2007
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all im doing is trying to get answers to questions.

before i came on this site, i didnt know that you could get pregnant frompre-ejaculation. and like i've said, my boyfriend and i have had unprotected sex many times before and i have felt some symptoms like hot and cold spells here and there for a few weeks now. and YES he did only orgasm in me this tuesday but what about the other times we had unprotected sex


And i dont think that just because im speaking my mind on here [and my comments may come out rude,] doesnt mean that i shouldnt have a child lol now THAT is the stupidest thing i've ever heard.
Im simply asking questions, yes they may sound stupid, but their questions that i wanted answers to.
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young Girl
replied on October 12th, 2007
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krystineM wrote:
all im doing is trying to get answers to questions.

before i came on this site, i didnt know that you could get pregnant frompre-ejaculation. and like i've said, my boyfriend and i have had unprotected sex many times before and i have felt some symptoms like hot and cold spells here and there for a few weeks now. and YES he did only orgasm in me this tuesday but what about the other times we had unprotected sex


And i dont think that just because im speaking my mind on here [and my comments may come out rude,] doesnt mean that i shouldnt have a child lol now THAT is the stupidest thing i've ever heard.
Im simply asking questions, yes they may sound stupid, but their questions that i wanted answers to.


well let me clear up a few things for you that you may have misnderstood about what weve said

i highly doubt that your pregnant
why? because your on your period. yes it can happen but you wouldnt be feeling any symptoms this soon ok?
so the hot and cold spell thins arent because of pregnancy
you may want to see a doctor about that. its something else

another thing is i never said and no one else ever said that because you sounded rude you shouldnt have a kid right now. the reason why we say this is because of what youve said about your situation. that your partner doesnt think right now is a good time to have a baby. hes probably right
if you cant make money to pay rent (barely) then how do you afford a kid? do you know how expensive they are? dont say you do because you dont. no one knows until they have kids. i dont even know yet
i do know that its been expensive so far and shes not even born yet
theres so many things you have to think about besides when shes here
you made it clear that money was an issue and stuff
so its simple
do not have a child

also i think that by your bfs decition to have unprotecetd sex and then say he doesnt think its the right timw to have a kid hes being stupid as hell. if he doesnt want a kid NOW then you should be USING PROTECTEION
another thing
you need to think about all the "ifs" of your future
"IF he left what would i do?"
IF he left where would we go?
IF he left how would i support the baby
because i dont care how in love you are or how much you think youll be together forever YOU DONT KNOW
simple
he could die in a car wreck
he couls cheat on you one day
he could get scared
or loose feelings for you
these things HAPPEN

and if you dont have a backup plan then you could get stuck in a position that would be unfair for your child

get it now?
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krystineM
replied on October 12th, 2007
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i had sex, on the first day OF MY PERIOD.
my periods, ARE IRREGULAR,i dont know WHEN I OVULATE

omg ive said that my boyfriend and i want to have a PLANNED PREGNANCY!!! but just because you think im not pregnant, doesnt mean i couldnt really be pregnant. im taking a pregnancy test next month, BECAUSE its too early to tell now.
girlfriend, you really need to go back and read previous comments i've written. i wrote a whole page on how my boyfriend and i want to be financially stable BEFORE we have a baby.
we have a PLAN. we know that a baby is expensive, and i dont have to have a baby to know that hun. BELIEVE ME I KNOW!! i've been in a house hold of 4 kids younger than me. ive seen how much they cost from watching my parents.
i know the what ifs, but what i WAS SAYING WAS, that if i am pregnant, we will have to organize our responsibilities now.
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