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Posted: 10-12-07 18:08pm

krystineM wrote:

i had sex, on the first day OF MY PERIOD.
my periods, ARE IRREGULAR,i dont know WHEN I OVULATE

omg ive said that my boyfriend and i want to have a PLANNED PREGNANCY!!! but just because you think im not pregnant, doesnt mean i couldnt really be pregnant. im taking a pregnancy test next month, BECAUSE its too early to tell now.
girlfriend, you really need to go back and read previous comments i've written. i wrote a whole page on how my boyfriend and i want to be financially stable BEFORE we have a baby.
we have a PLAN. we know that a baby is expensive, and i dont have to have a baby to know that hun. BELIEVE ME I KNOW!! i've been in a house hold of 4 kids younger than me. ive seen how much they cost from watching my parents.
i know the what ifs, but what i WAS SAYING WAS, that if i am pregnant, we will have to organize our responsibilities now.

ahh right there! right there you said it!

we want to be finaicially stable before we have a baby!!!

so guess what> dont be a fool and wrap his tool
simple
ive read every one of your posts
every one
and the replies people have givin you
im not going to argue with you like a 4 yr old

good god i hope you are not pregnant for the sake of that baby
yes test in a month because yes its too soon
until then... Rolling Eyes

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:13pm


the repiles people have given me yes have been helpful. but to the other people who just jump in and dont read what ive posted and when i have to re-say what i write then get health forum at for not being so distinct about everything i say, and then, when i do, i get health forum at cuz my question is stupid, and i shouldnt have a baby cuz im not mature? For last doing it TIME i know im not ready to have a baby now. i want a planned pregnancy, i kno babies are expensive, i know babysitting and having a baby of your own are different. i doing it get it!

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:14pm

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krystineM wrote:

your one to talk i guess your a fool cause u should have wraped your mans tool Laughing

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:16pm


wow and your having a baby. guess mamma's gonna be a promiscuous person!

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:35pm


my pregnncy was not planned but we knew that not using protection wed eventually get pregnant and we were finacially stable for a baby as well as emotionally stable we live together. have stable jobs and supportive familes we BOTh were willing to accept it and we BOTh were knowing that it could happen after 7 months of unprtected sex we concieved

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:39pm


i now know that because my boyfriend and i have unprotected sex, there is a chance of me getting pregnant, and i am willing to accept that if it does happen, if my boyfriend isn't then thats his personal problem, and your right we should be using protection then. But we've talked about it adn he has told me that he will support me and your right i dont know what the future holds, but if theres a baby in that picture sometime soon, im willing to be 100% dedicated to raising that baby.

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:41pm

krystineM wrote:

i now know that because my boyfriend and i have unprotected sex, there is a chance of me getting pregnant, and i am willing to accept that if it does happen, if my boyfriend isn't then thats his personal problem, and your right we should be using protection then. But we've talked about it adn he has told me that he will support me and your right i dont know what the future holds, but if theres a baby in that picture sometime soon, im willing to be 100% dedicated to raising that baby.

if he doesnt want to accept it thats his problem? Confused

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Posted: 10-12-07 18:43pm


right, i'll still have the baby even if he cant grow up and be responsible for something we both took part in.

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Posted: 10-12-07 19:17pm

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right, i'll still have the baby even if he cant grow up and be responsible for something we both took part in.

and then your child will have no fatheer
and thats the kind of life youre willing to give your child? woooowwwww

please dont have kids

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Posted: 10-12-07 22:08pm


omg im speaking HYPATHETICALLY,(i am not pregnant) if i were to get pregnant and my boyfriend didnt want to be responsible and support me, i would still have my baby. What would you rather have me do? have an abortion just cuz my baby wont have a father?

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Posted: 10-13-07 00:45am

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my pregnncy was not planned but we knew that not using protection wed eventually get pregnant
and we were finacially stable for a baby as well as emotionally stable
we live together. have stable jobs and supportive familes
we BOTh were willing to accept it and we BOTh were knowing that it could happen
after 7 months of unprtected sex we concieved

you think u are stable enough but if u were u would not be living at home still.

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Posted: 10-13-07 05:43am


i know that.. im pretty sure i stated that in many other posts, my boyfriend and i WANT TO BE STABLE FIRST. and we are pretty stable, we're just trying to find a place of our own. We have some apartments in mind that we're looking at, we just have to see who calls us back and what not

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Posted: 10-13-07 07:38am

krystineM wrote:

i know that..
im pretty sure i stated that in many other posts,
my boyfriend and i WANT TO BE STABLE FIRST.
and we are pretty stable, we're just trying to find a place of our own.
We have some apartments in mind that we're looking at,
we just have to see who calls us back and what not

i was not talking to you.

i was talking to the_girlfreind who seems to think that it is just ok for 16 year old girls to get pregnant.

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Posted: 10-13-07 08:25am

chase4 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

you think u are stable enough but if u were u would not be living at home still.

i dont live at home Wink

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Posted: 10-13-07 09:10am

the_girlfreind wrote:

chase4 wrote:

the_girlfreind wrote:

you think u are stable enough but if u were u would not be living at home still.

i dont live at home Wink

oh excuse me you live in your b/f moms house Rolling Eyes

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Posted: 10-13-07 09:29am


Be nice girls

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Posted: 10-13-07 16:34pm

chase4 wrote:

krystineM wrote:

i was not talking to you.

i was talking to the_girlfreind who seems to think that it is just ok for 16 year old girls to get pregnant.

THANK YOU!!! finally someone else has said exactally what i've been thinking all along!

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Posted: 10-13-07 16:44pm


umm hunny you're the one that thinks it's okay to get pregnant when you can barely make rent and you're bf isn't ready... i think you're being a tad bit hypocritical

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Posted: 10-13-07 17:46pm

krystineM wrote:

chase4 wrote:

krystineM wrote:

i was not talking to you.

i was talking to the_girlfreind who seems to think that it is just ok for 16 year old girls to get pregnant.

THANK YOU!!! finally someone else has said exactally what i've been thinking all along!

Kristine, Its not really a great idea for 18 year olds to get pregnant either. (And Im not saying AT ALL that 16 or 18 year olds CANT handle a baby, because it is obvious that several have done it and done it GREAT) You are not financially stable, you don't have a place to live, you can't afford to get an apartment, you don't seem to have a stable support network. Its just not a good idea. You say you have a job, but what kind of job do you have? Do you or your boyfriend make enough to support a baby? My husband and I make barely decent money and we would strugle a bit.

All in all it is best if you and your boyfriend just take it easy and enjoy each other before you jump in to having a baby. You should absolutely make sure that this is the guy that you want to be with forever before you concider having his child.

Just use your head a little bit and think about the reality of having a child.

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Posted: 10-13-07 17:51pm

krystineM wrote:

omg im speaking HYPATHETICALLY,(i am not pregnant) if i were to get pregnant and my boyfriend didnt want to be responsible and support me, i would still have my baby. What would you rather have me do? have an abortion just cuz my baby wont have a father?

Birth control was created so women can be in control of when they become mothers. It is fabulous not to wonder or worry about how you will take care of others before you have a chance to take care of yourself.

You may want to look into birth control. It makes sex way more fun not to be concerned about pregnant.

Your boyfriend truly does not sound like he is ready for the steps you are wanting to take. Slow down. What is the difference between having a baby now or in a few years?