martha has joined the conversation!!!!!!!!!!!

omg i know we're not ready to have one!
and i never said we can barely make rent. i said we're looking for a place and HAVE THE MONEY TO PAY RENT
i said we would RATHER have a baby when we're financially ready..what are you trying to tell me here? i already know i cant afford one right now

just to make it crystal clear to everyone,
i DO know that i am NOT realy to have a baby.
I dont believe in using birth control. My theory is, if your not ready to have a kid, dont have sex.
and im 18 and still dont have a kid, so im not worried. Even thought i know there is a risk of getting pregnant, we're being careful.
And after hearing what *star* had to say,
i do understand thats it IS better to wait and have a kid than rush into having one.

You're theory isn't what you're practicing! Sheesh! You're not making sense dear. You really need to revise that statement about not being ready for a kid then don't have sex. it throws me off every time because you are still having sex even when you admit you aren't ready. You're not being careful if you are only pulling out before he finishes.

and i did state that i do know that theres still a chance of getting pregnant with no protection.

Not using birth control is my choise, we use condoms sometimes, not all times...
we're not having sex 24/7

you make no sence
youre freaking seriously contradicting everything you say
you dont believe in using BC because it "kills" and innocent life? lol geez well you must not believe in periods either because i guess that kills a life too!

yes you are contradicting yourself
if YOU and YOUR BF KNOW you're not ready for a child
then how hard is it to put a freaking condom on?
all the time... not just some of the time..
it wouldn't be fair to that poor child
think of that for a little bit..

martha but she doesnt think its right to use BC because it "kills and innocent life"

and she wants a baby (or atleast thats what she said when she posted her topic) and now she doesnt think shes ready
oh and all of a sudden shes haveing all of the symptoms

not using birth control is my choice.

i didnt say i was having symptoms, i was just WONDERING WHAT the symptoms were, how soon you get them, which you've all told me so i know i cant be getting signs this early.

i love how you can tell who the educated people are in these conversations.

lol

"most stupidest"

uhhh

Ok thats enough girls...

This wasn't even Krystine's post to begin with