Hi my name is kayla. I am 16 and I just
found out today that...I'm pregnant. I
am debating whether or not to have an
abortion. I somewhat think it's wrong
and the "easy way out" plus there are
risks involved with that. On the other
hand, having the baby would be really
difficult and I have no idea how to go
about telling my parents that their 16
year old daughter is going to have a baby.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for
about a year now and I know this would not
be a bad relationship to bring a baby into
but yea. I know people who, at a young
age have concieved a child (not
personally, but yea) but I really don't
know what to do. If there is anyone out
there who could help me in any
way...Please I really need your advice!!
I'm panicking and can't concentrate on
school and I don't know who I can talk to
about it.
Kayla
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oh_mommy
Supporter
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 11-15-05 01:59am
How old is your bf? Can he get a job that
can get you two an apparment and food and
the needs of a baby? Is there people who
would help you out? Im sure that telling
your parents wont be nearly as bad as you
think, (thou I would be scared too) just
leave them a note. Or figure out a plan
of what you plan to do so they will
realise your responisble to figure out
what you can do and your oppitions you
have. Sorry im not much help
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ryansmommy16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 72 Location: alabama
Posted: 11-17-05 01:47am
What does your b/f think about the
abortion idea? Well anyways here is my
story..... I got pregnant at 15 and got
married had my son at 16. My parents were
upset but they got over it. I am sure
yours will do the same. They will still
love you and when the baby is born love
it. Yea it will be a little bit harder
b/c of your age but beleive me I know a
lot of teen moms that are better parents
than some 35 year olds I know. You can do
it girl. Give that little baby a chance
and when you have it you will see that it
was truley a blessing. If you wanna talk
im me or e-mail me at ti
ffson15@yahoo.Com.Would love to talk
to ya.
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