Just wondering if any1 other first time
dads are really relaxed about the whole
thing or scared??
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Indydad
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Indianapolis
Posted: 11-27-05 12:34pm
It is not really fear but apprehension.
Not knowing what to expect as this is new.
Be patient, be involved and everything
will come to you.
Things will change. However these
changes are for the better. There are
steps in life that you can't make on your
own and this is one of them. Your child
will move you along at your child's pace
and you just need to be there for them.
In the end when they call you "daddy" and
give you a big kiss it's a prize 2x the
size of any lottery. There are people out
there that spend a fortune just to be in
your shoes.
Just remember they will always need you.
No matter what problems come from other
people around you your child is just that.