I Tried the Hold And Cuddle With My Husband....doesn't Work! Posted: 11-17-05 09:57am
First of all thanks for responding. Well,
I thought about the cuddle thing too.
When we watch a movie, he sits a little
farther away, when I give him a nice
squeezy hug, his arms seem looser, and he
seldom initiates sex! He has something to
blame everytime, like, I don't like the
food I ate, my stomach hurt, why am I so
tired, and its almost like he wants to get
away without having sex and wants me to
sympathise with him! He doesn't have it
even though all the the time I say, "i'll
do the work", but the other night he's
like, may be you should try something new.
And ladies, I am as adventure lover as it
goes! He does work with his ex, with who
he had a miscarriage and somewhat good sex
life, well, he wanted more than sex and
the girl told him right upfront that she
is in it for sex only. You think it has
something to do with it??
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Jessica_CF20
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Re: I Tried the Hold And Cuddle With My Husband....doesn't W Posted: 11-27-05 19:45pm
betterknow
wrote:
first of all thanks for
responding. Well, I thought about the
cuddle thing too. When we watch a movie,
he sits a little farther away, when I give
him a nice squeezy hug, his arms seem
looser, and he seldom initiates sex! He
has something to blame everytime, like, I
don't like the food I ate, my stomach
hurt, why am I so tired, and its almost
like he wants to get away without having
sex and wants me to sympathise with him!
He doesn't have it even though all the the
time I say, "i'll do the work", but the
other night he's like, may be you should
try something new. And ladies, I am as
adventure lover as it goes! He does work
with his ex, with who he had a miscarriage
and somewhat good sex life, well, he
wanted more than sex and the girl told him
right upfront that she is in it for sex
only. You think it has something to do
with it??
well I can tell you from experience during
tv time is not the best time to cuddle my
hubby hates it when I try to cuddle during
a movie all guys are different though when
he said try something new he may have
meant by yourself ???? He might be
feeling that he doesnt want this
relationship to be like the last one so he
is hiding his wants and feelings so he
wont get hurt again? Just a thought have
you talked to him I mean like you talk to
us here? That might help it is the best
way to go good luck sweetie
