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Q: 17 Weeks Prego And Needs Help W/ My 5 Year Old Daughter:(
asked by: kirztensmummy on November 17th, 2005
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Hi everyone im on my 17th week of my 3rd pregnancy which is going smoothly:d anyway I need advise regarding my 5 year old child because I cant get enough sleep and have been dealing with bundles of dirty linen for about 2 weeks straight now coz she doesnt stop weeing the bed, I believe we've (me and hubby) tried everything that we possibly could to prevent this but still she ends up having this "midnight shower".




Here are sum stuffs that we tried:
---getting her up every 3 hours and taking her to toilet (which is next to her room)
---giving her a warm shower before bed
---the nurse advised me not to give her any drinks 2 hours before bed time
---we lessened the fizzy drink intake
---told her off
---spoke to her gently about her weeing
---our last resort was placing a nappy on her during bedtime but we dont really want her to get used to it plus she's a bit embarassed about it which I dont want to lead to insecurity in the future
---she's gonna have a routine urine test just to check if there's any glucose or protein content (i know its gonna be normal anyway) coz she doesnt complain about pain on weeing or anything like that
---we also tried bribing her with treats and stuffs if she doesnt wee on the bed
we did all of this and still not a single tactic took effect

im a bit stressed about this as I cant do anymore household chores because of too much laundry (i dunno wot will I do if washing machine wasnt invented) and I always have to check on her during bedtime just to check if she's dry as we dont want her to be drenched of wee.




Our radiators is covered with wet linen and towels as I have to make sure there is stock in her room(we gotta change the bed mattress as its starting to smell) thats properly dried.






Anyone of you whose been on my situation please let me know what you did to resolve the problem thanks!




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diamondsz
replied on November 17th, 2005
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Hey anna,

my brother had an overactive bladder till he was 10 its somewhat normal but can be treated if thats what she ends up having, I havent potty trained mine yet so I cant really give any home to heart advice.

If I remeber correctly all my mom did was place a shower curtain on anthonys bed underneath fitted sheets, I know its not comfortable but at least it saves the mattress. As for laundry see if you can get a hired hand, because of my condition I qualify for special programs where I have someone come to my home 1-2 a week to help with cleaning.

Wish you luck
jess
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kirztensmummy
replied on November 18th, 2005
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diamondsz wrote:
hey anna,

my brother had an overactive bladder till he was 10 its somewhat normal but can be treated if thats what she ends up having, I havent potty trained mine yet so I cant really give any home to heart advice.

If I remeber correctly all my mom did was place a shower curtain on anthonys bed underneath fitted sheets, I know its not comfortable but at least it saves the mattress. As for laundry see if you can get a hired hand, because of my condition I qualify for special programs where I have someone come to my home 1-2 a week to help with cleaning.


Wish you luck
jess


hello jess hows things? Shower curtainunderneath the sheets? If she wouldnt stop weeing then probably I gotta do that although I know its uncomfortable=(
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lil_blaze2004
replied on November 18th, 2005
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My cousin is 13 and still has this problem--goodnites.Com has some solutions to try too.
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replied on November 18th, 2005
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They do have plastick for beds to keep them dry I had my oldest that wet the bed alot he is 10 know and dont do it any more some times it takes time for them to break form it they do have pills to help with the weting to.. Hope this helps know it's late but hey never know
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replied on November 19th, 2005
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Re: 17 Weeks Prego And Needs Help W/ My 5 Year Old Daughter:
kirztensmummy wrote:
hi everyone im on my 17th week of my 3rd pregnancy which is going smoothly:d anyway I need advise regarding my 5 year old child because I cant get enough sleep and have been dealing with bundles of dirty linen for about 2 weeks straight now coz she doesnt stop weeing the bed, I believe we've (me and hubby) tried everything that we possibly could to prevent this but still she ends up having this "midnight shower".





Here are sum stuffs that we tried:
---getting her up every 3 hours and taking her to toilet (which is next to her room)
---giving her a warm shower before bed
---the nurse advised me not to give her any drinks 2 hours before bed time
---we lessened the fizzy drink intake
---told her off
---spoke to her gently about her weeing
---our last resort was placing a nappy on her during bedtime but we dont really want her to get used to it plus she's a bit embarassed about it which I dont want to lead to insecurity in the future
---she's gonna have a routine urine test just to check if there's any glucose or protein content (i know its gonna be normal anyway) coz she doesnt complain about pain on weeing or anything like that
---we also tried bribing her with treats and stuffs if she doesnt wee on the bed
we did all of this and still not a single tactic took effect

im a bit stressed about this as I cant do anymore household chores because of too much laundry (i dunno wot will I do if washing machine wasnt invented) and I always have to check on her during bedtime just to check if she's dry as we dont want her to be drenched of wee.





Our radiators is covered with wet linen and towels as I have to make sure there is stock in her room(we gotta change the bed mattress as its starting to smell) thats properly dried.







Anyone of you whose been on my situation please let me know what you did to resolve the problem thanks!



first off, scolding and treats will not change anything. It could possibly be like my brother--they told us he just slept to hard and his body would not wake him. He was and is very hyperactive. He would run so long and so hard--my mom would say-- he slid in the door--cross the floor --to the tv and he'd be out soon as he landed.


Remember it is not a discipline thing, it is genetic. It is not her fault. It is more likely for her to be doing this if she has urinary infection and or kidney infection also--cant hold it the same. Hopefully not though.


Good luck
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