Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: NSW Australia
Yearning For a Baby?? Posted: 11-18-05 10:23am
I want a baby more than ever!!!
I have alway felt that there was something
missing in my life and I know that having
a child of my own will complete me as a
person!!
I never went to university or even wanted
a career....I just wanted to be a mum!!
My partner and I have been together for 4
years now...We have never had protected
sex in this time and i'm still not
pregnant! I know there must be a problem
but he says hes not ready to start a
family.
I went to my local doctor to get a referal
to a gyno!! What questions should I ask
them?? Any advice would be greatly
appreciated!!
Pixma!!
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me_plus1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 38 Location: Georgia
Posted: 11-18-05 10:29am
Even though your are yearning for a baby,
don't make your situation complicated by
getting pregnant by a guy who doesn't want
to start a family. That will lead to
chaos and you don't want that. Talk to
him and tell him how you really feel. If
he still says no and you want a family
with him, then be patient, it will happen
and it will be something you guys can go
through together. If you are not happy
with the no then you still have to respect
that. Realize that you guys are at
different places and maybe you need to
re-evaluate your relationship.
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: NSW Australia
Thankyou For Your Advice Me_plus1 Posted: 11-18-05 11:26am
Stephen has given his blessing for me to
go to the gyno to find out whats wrong!!
He too has realised that something is not
right!! He has also told me that if I
cant conceive naturally that will we go to
any lengths to conceive!! Although if he
had his own way we wouldn't have children
at all!!!!!
My issue is that I would like to concieve
naturally if possible!! In my eyes if I
cant conceive naturally I guess i'mnot
meant to have one!! :-( i'm a big
believer in signs!!
I guess although i'm only 25 I feel i'm
running out of time!!
Thankyou for your advice me_plus1!!:-)
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Re: Thankyou For Your Advice Me_plus1 Posted: 11-18-05 12:07pm
pixma
wrote:
stephen has given his
blessing for me to go to the gyno to find
out whats wrong!! He too has realised
that something is not right!! He has
also told me that if I cant conceive
naturally that will we go to any lengths
to conceive!! Although if he had his own
way we wouldn't have children at all!!!!!
My issue is that I would like to concieve
naturally if possible!! In my eyes if I
cant conceive naturally I guess i'mnot
meant to have one!! :-( i'm a big
believer in signs!!
I guess although i'm only 25 I feel i'm
running out of time!!
Thankyou for your advice
me_plus1!!:-)
i'm wishing you all the best pixma!!!
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: NSW Australia
