Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 62 Location: London, UK
Relationship Help Posted: 11-18-05 10:57am
My ld bf (long distance) and I just
recently decided to go on a break (my
idea) sort of. I've just started falling
for this guy and well at first I didnt
think he was really serious has he was
just so sex sex sex mad but now he's
calmed down. He says that he likes me
like no other that he infact loves me.
Wow scary. I stil didnt think he was
serious has he doesnt like to open up to
me. Which frustrates me so much but I
understand with the lost of his parent hes
not much for talking. Sometimes I feel
he's just messing me about then he says
things that make me think he is.
Reccently he started asking me if I told
my ld bf about him. I was unsure why he
was asking me so I decided to ask him.
Why and he said he was just wwonder I
asked him repeatly and he just snap and
told me to shut up. I couldnt believe it.
Things havent been the same since. He's
now become more closed.
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Kgirl16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 135 Location: Canada
Posted: 11-18-05 13:53pm
My dear I highly doubt he was angry,
infact I believe he was hurt when you
asked why instead of answering with "yes
or no", and now he's a bit embarrassed and
that's why he has closed up. Tell him the
truth about your ld boyfriend and tell him
that you care about how he feels. Don't
take it personally, honestly ladies, men
act angry and closed when their feelings
are hurt.
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youngandpregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 62 Location: London, UK
Thax Posted: 11-18-05 15:48pm
I will tell him the truth I hope he really
isnt angry coz I realy do like him alot.