Girl Freind At School, Help......... Posted: 11-18-05 14:28pm
Theres this girl I like at school and she
likes me, ive been told shes really into
me but is too shy to tell me. Theres a
possibility that we might go out with each
other, but when it comes to girl freinds
at school I always get shy and am worried
about what to do, how to approuch them ect
its really awkard and things are different
when we are around each other we dont talk
like we would before we went out with each
other and we dont flirt ect it soo awkward
our freinds litterally have to get us to
hug, im not frigid at all ive done stuff
with girls, but when it come to a
relationship I get all awkward and shy ect
and we end up not going out due to us not
doing anything or even talking cos of the
shyness and the fact were totaly different
round each other when we go out.
Any tips or help please I feel this girl
is the one, I dont wont to ruin it at all
this time round.
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hellohi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005 Posts: 9 Location: California
Posted: 11-23-05 04:43am
I have a similar story. Me and this guy I
met felt extremely awkward around each
other. We couldnt talk on the phone
because it was so awkward. Then things
started to go downhill. I had met him
through a friend. Then I realized that I
really liked the guy and I was determined
to make this work. My determination of
keeping up conversations and slowly
adapting to this new sense of feeling
(love) eventually led to him asking me
out. Im in high school also. This guy is
my first boyfriend and we are still
together. We have been dating for over 10
months
now it sounds like to me that you are
pretty settled on this girl. If you
really think this girl is the one, then
you need to do whatever is possible to
overcome your fear. And its ok to be
scared. Not every guy is macho when it
comes down to relationships and its ok.
Just stay true to yourself. I hope
everything works out. Good luck :]
