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if you were pregnant what would you do.
keep the baby
have an abortion
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asked by: youngandpregnant on November 18th, 2005
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I now believe abortion maybe isnt the right thing for me or my baby. So just have to really think this thro whats best for my baby.
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michelle1981
replied on November 18th, 2005
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You can also put your baby up for adoption.....

Personally I would keep my baby.... I conceived my first child at 17..... You're not alone!
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youngandpregnant
replied on November 18th, 2005
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I wanna keep her (not sure shes a she but I feel she is) but i'm scared i'll be a terrible mother.
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michelle1981
replied on November 18th, 2005
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Why do you feel you'll be a terrible mother? Maybe I can help
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youngandpregnant
replied on November 18th, 2005
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Because
Most girls my age turn out to hate they children and treat them bad. Plus my regretted having me thro she wont say it. My mum doesnt love me as much as my sister and it the truth.
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michelle1981
replied on November 18th, 2005
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I don't necessarily agree with you on that point. My mother had my sister at 18.... And a vast majority of her friends had kids young.... Their kids are happy and well loved.

Don't compare what you feel your mother has made you feel, to how good or bad of a mother you'll be.... You are not your mother!
It doesn't have to be that way.

My husband just turned 17 when we found out we were expecting.

It's very scary, and i'm sure you feel overwhelmed. Take time to look deep inside and find out what you really want to do....It's up to you!

As I said before.. We're here for you :)
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youngandpregnant
replied on November 18th, 2005
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Okay...Thax
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fatfamily02
replied on November 18th, 2005
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Please dont kill your baby!!
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youngandpregnant
replied on November 18th, 2005
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Wow!!
Wow!!! That was straight to the point. I've deicde to not have an abortion but still unsure and unclear what to do.
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fatfamily02
replied on November 18th, 2005
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Thank .God, sorry so blunt. To me there is no other discusion needed.
I dont care who says different--it is a baby from day of fertilization and anything less is death and loss, or killing and homicide. Sorry. God loves you and wishes you would not put that extra burden on yourself, you might not recover from. It seems easy until after, but then some women never get over the loss and shame. Besides that .He may be the greatest world leader of our time, or the greatest christian leader in this next decade or 2. .Right??
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youngandpregnant
replied on November 18th, 2005
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You seem like a solid chirstian, and I hear you having twins wow. It must be exciting for you. I'm happy for you
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