Why do you feel you'll be a terrible
mother? Maybe I can help
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youngandpregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 62 Location: London, UK
Because Posted: 11-18-05 21:10pm
Most girls my age turn out to hate they
children and treat them bad. Plus my
regretted having me thro she wont say it.
My mum doesnt love me as much as my sister
and it the truth.
I don't necessarily agree with you on that
point. My mother had my sister at 18....
And a vast majority of her friends had
kids young.... Their kids are happy and
well loved.
Don't compare what you feel your mother
has made you feel, to how good or bad of a
mother you'll be.... You are not your
mother!
It doesn't have to be that way.
My husband just turned 17 when we found
out we were expecting.
It's very scary, and i'm sure you feel
overwhelmed. Take time to look deep
inside and find out what you really want
to do....It's up to you!
As I said before.. We're here for you :)
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youngandpregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 62 Location: London, UK
Posted: 11-18-05 21:39pm
Okay...Thax
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 11-18-05 21:43pm
Please dont kill your baby!!
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youngandpregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 62 Location: London, UK
Wow!! Posted: 11-18-05 21:48pm
Wow!!! That was straight to the point.
I've deicde to not have an abortion but
still unsure and unclear what to do.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 11-18-05 22:04pm
Thank .God, sorry so blunt. To me there
is no other discusion needed.
I dont care who says different--it is a
baby from day of fertilization and
anything less is death and loss, or
killing and homicide. Sorry. God loves
you and wishes you would not put that
extra burden on yourself, you might not
recover from. It seems easy until after,
but then some women never get over the
loss and shame. Besides that .He may be
the greatest world leader of our time, or
the greatest christian leader in this next
decade or 2. .Right??
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youngandpregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 62 Location: London, UK
Christian View Posted: 11-18-05 22:08pm
You seem like a solid chirstian, and I
hear you having twins wow. It must be
exciting for you. I'm happy for you
