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impatientlywaiting
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Why Do Men Cheat?
Posted: 11-21-05 15:30pm
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Just curious if any men would respond and
try and answer the question of why cheat?
I am not talking affairs either.... I
mean, you love your girlfriend, wife, etc
but you still feel the need to sleep with
other people...
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tonii9999
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Hi
Posted: 11-29-05 21:53pm
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Why do men cause they are pigs
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poohbear101
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Posted: 11-29-05 23:39pm
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That isn't exactly fair (although catch me
on a bad day and I will agree with you
that all men are pigs) but women cheat
too. There was actually an article
written about it (can't remember where I
read it) but it was said that women cheat
for emotional reasons. They're not
getting what they want mentally from their
husbands/partners so they find someone who
has something in common with them
emotionally, which brings them closer
together and they cheat. Men cheat for
the physical. So basically they just want
to get laid. Now don't think that i'm
making excuses for cheating or anything, I
think its very cowerdly and selfish and
even though those who do cheat know its
wrong, thats part of the attraction to it.
The forbidden.
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lovinmom4
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Posted: 12-01-05 08:20am
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The question is.....Why do men cheat?
Well, I believe that certain men just
cannot control their urges. They aren't
man enough to walk away. Some men cheat
because they know they can do it and get
by with it.
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ironmantaylors
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I Have Never Cheated.....but.......
Posted: 12-01-05 08:53am
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I believe men cheat to inflate their egos.
He with the most toys wins, and he with
the most bed post notches also wins.
Pigs is good answer. Men like to "hunt",
and "conquer". Unfortunatly, it causes
pain if there are significant others
involved. Also, unfortunatly, some men
lose interest after the conquest. Which
makes it difficult for women to trust men,
and justifiably so.
That is my imput, as I too would like more
"notches in the bed post" but understand
that that pleasure is only temporary. A
good relationship is worth staying
faithful.
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Stu
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Cheating
Posted: 12-02-05 05:43am
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In my opinion, cheating only becomes
cheating when you are dishonest about what
you want and lack the courage to be honest
with those concerned. If you are in a
relationship and you find someone else you
want to be with, then you should have the
guts to end your current relationship.
But many cheaters won't do this of course,
because they would rather hedge their
bets. "hey, I won't end my relationship
just in case this fling doesn't work out".
I think it's perfectly forgiveable to
fall for someone else, I mean we're not
always in control of these things. But
what we definitely are in control of is
our physical actions, and the excuse of "i
couldn't help myself!" is b*llsh*t!
I think what drives a lot of people to
cheat is that they are like spoilt
children. It doesn't matter what they've
got, they always want more. And once
they want something they're going to have
it, regardless of who get's hurt. Real
men don't cheat, cowardly men do. And
the same goes for women, I know more women
who have cheated than men, believe me!
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Men Cheat Because.....
Posted: 12-07-05 19:59pm
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Most people will say men cheat when they
get bored I am not one of those people. I
think they cheat because they dont feel
connected to their partner. Most cases I
would say its the cheating partners fault
they dont feel connected. They will
justify doing it anyway they can but I
think it comes down to being afraid to
commit to something that they dont know
how it will end. I have had two
girlfriends cheat on me and when I look
back on it I see their fears of commiting
to the unknown.
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chubbycheeks
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Posted: 12-18-05 14:59pm
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I just think men are pigs, they jusy want
it all and they don't even consider that
"significant other's feelings" just just
do what they want and when they are done
or they get caught they say oh i'm sorry I
din't mean it I just couldn't help myself
but I do love you please forgive me. And
it's so wrong if you don't forgive them
but if you ever cheat, your the worst
woman on the face of the planet.I'm not
saying that women should get away with it
but sometimes men just feel that they can
and should do whatever they want and women
can't even do caca!!!!!!!! And no i'm not
sexist!!
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Posted: 12-20-05 12:58pm
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Why do girls cheat on us and make it seem
like girls are victims? But when we cheat
on girls, we are evil?
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Posted: 12-20-05 13:07pm
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I think men only cheat if they are not
satisfied in their relationship.
And thats exacly the same reason women
cheat. Though its possible that women
are more patient with their partner and
therefore less likely to cheat. The
percentage of men who cheat might be
higher compared to women and that might be
because of the stigma associated with
women cheating i.E. Those women might
get the label of "promiscuous person"
in summary, men cheat because they are not
happy in their relationship.
Thats my take on it...
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Generalising Is Cheating Too... Cheating Yourself of Reality
Posted: 12-25-05 04:58am
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Question to ponder... How is cheating
achieved?
Strictly speaking, "cheating" in
relationships is one partner doing some
inappropriate to the relationship. But a
lot of us are selfish enough to define it
as the one partner doing something
considered inappropriate by the other
partner.
There are many reasons for outcomes to
look like "cheats". But we must consider
people's intensions and how much they
cared about being honest, otherwise we're
just coming up with things to blame.
Life is never fair. Some people hardly
have control over themselves. So
controlling a relationship to be text-book
perfect is not the easiest thing to do.
If you see yourself getting too emotional
because of your partner cheating on you,
remember... Your partner too was
emotional when they decided to cheat.
Take away the fuel rather than fanning
away the smoke.
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Posted: 12-25-05 06:09am
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Men cheat cause they know they usually can
get away with it
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Posted: 12-25-05 08:05am
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Then how come I never cheated my
girlfriend ? How come I was cheated by my
ex-girlfriend before ? It's too easy to
say that men always will cheat.
It's false.
Bored, disrespected, or broken-hearted
**persons** (male and female) may cheat.
Don't take for granted that men are born
to cheat while women are the poor victims
left alone in the situation. Sometimes
women are responsible, too.
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Posted: 12-25-05 12:55pm
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Sometimes women cheat? Wow...Where do all
of you live? Women are just as likely to
cheat as men are.
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tonii9999
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Men Cheating
Posted: 01-06-06 13:05pm
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I never cheated on my man he never
cheated on me when u love some one u dont
cheat I never even tryed to cheat on my
man and I now he doesnt he goes to work
ever day and then comes right home he
realy doesnt go out peopel cheat cause
they now they dont love tehre b/f or g/f
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Cheating Issue.
Posted: 01-13-06 00:59am
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Hey babe,
cheating itself is as a result of
disatisfaction. The only time I get d
urge to c wats outside is wen I feel
altogether sick with the whole stuff
called relationship but then dat urge is
gone as soon as she does d right thing.
Same goes for ladies, I believe!
Last word: guys ain't pigs please.
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tonii9999
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Why Do When Chaet
Posted: 01-13-06 01:22am
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I never cheated on any of my b/f I dont
believe in cheating its wrong when to
people love each other u dont cheat alot
of are pigs some are not
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Cheating
Posted: 01-13-06 03:41am
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I think some people cheat beacuse the
thought of being with only one person for
any length of time scares them.They are
afarid that if they stay with one person
they might miss the one that was "meant"
for them.What most of them dont realize is
that by always looking for the "right" one
they are hurting the one they are with
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Posted: 01-13-06 05:45am
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What poohbear said, I heard the exact same
thing. I was watching discovery health a
show called talk sex, it goes over issues
like why some women dont like sex as much
as others how sex interferes with pregancy
etc etc and the topic of the night was why
people cheat and its true women cheat for
emotional reasons and with men its just
physical. That may not hold for all
people, but I can say for me its true on
the womens part because I had cheated on
my bf about 2 years ago because for a
while he was always caught up in something
else and it didnt feel like he even
noticed me. Needless to say we solved it
and everything is fine now :-)
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tonii9999
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Well
Posted: 01-13-06 11:31am
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Thats what we are doing working it out he
talking getting married now in the summer
the last few days we doing alot better
since I had that long talk with him he
said he sees were iam coming from so we
will se what happens as time goes bye so
far so good ill keep u guys posted and let
u guys how we are doing thanks for the
help
iam still going to read and post stuff on
this forum its a realy good forum its the
only I go to now
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