Joined: 21 Nov 2005 Posts: 12 Location: Lafayette, Indiana
Hello Everyone I Am a Newbie Posted: 11-22-05 16:39pm
Hello everyone my name is jen I am 6 weeks
pregnant with my third have two other
kids. Boy 3 1/2 and a girl 2 years of
age. I am 29 years old also been married
to a wonderful man for 3 years now. The
two kids I have now will not listen, talk
back, do everything and anything they can
to get me stressed I need help husband
works nights and family won't help friends
will but thier schedules work to help when
my husband has off. Please so advice
would be appreciated to help control these
kids before 7 1/2 months come. Any advice
on potty training a girl 2 years of age.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 11-22-05 17:37pm
You are having your kids close
together...Lots braver then I am!! Not
trying to be mean or anything but if you
are having so much trouble out of your two
children, why have another so soon?? Just
wondering. I don't think that there is
much you can do for your two children,
they are at that age where they are not
going to listen very well. Anyways,
welcome to the forum! I hope you find
what you are looking for here. Good luck
with your pregnancy.
God bless and good luck,
teresa
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jenjen29
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2005 Posts: 12 Location: Lafayette, Indiana
Posted: 11-22-05 18:24pm
The stuff with my other two kids has been
going on fo a long while now. I didn't
want another one but it just happened this
one was not planned it was a big surprise.
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LITTLE LISA
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005 Posts: 30 Location: CROYDON, SURREY, UK
Posted: 11-24-05 04:44am
Hi jen
i thought you were my sister for a mo then
I looked at your message lol as my sis
calls herself jen or jen jen !!
Well kids feed on your anxietys they can
tell and in doing so run rings around
you... You need to be firm and stick to
the word no!!!. Have you tried time outs?
They are very effective.
Use this time while you are pregnant to I
know this sounds weird but retrain your
kids into a new routine. It will be hard
at first but believe me it will all be
worth it in the end..
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jenjen29
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2005 Posts: 12 Location: Lafayette, Indiana
Posted: 11-24-05 10:19am
Hi little lisa,
i have tried time outs, spankings, not
getting treats if they are bad all of
that. I think the problems are from the
grandparents letting them have whatever
they want.............Which I have tried
my best to stop. My husband has tried to
even help out with these two also no luck.
Do you have any idea of how to potty
train a girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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tyork20
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Robbins
Hey I'm T. I Need Help Posted: 12-01-05 23:18pm
I gave birth to twins back in may. I now
have 4 children. I became extremely
depressed ever since I was diagnosed with
eclampsia. Now I have heart failure and
high blood pressure. The cardio told me
that my heart was very weak and to be
careful. Death is near and I am only 28.
Somedays I am feeling ok and then all of a
sudden I am depressed. At the time of the
c-section, I also had a tubal ligation. I
have been having symptoms from my tubes
being tied. Now my memory is off and I
have not been right since. People think I
am crazy and my husband has not been
supportive at all. He has been
cold-hearted and insensitive to my
feelings. When I do need him the most he
is not there to rescue me. I am crying
for help and need someone to talk to who
is in my shoes. I am bitter and angry.
My children needs me but I have not been a
supportive mom. I wish someone
understands what I am going through.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 12-02-05 17:35pm
Hey t. My name is teresa, and i'd be glad
to talk to you and try to help you out.
You can e-mail me at wife2jason_mom2ryley@yahoo.Com
i'm at work right now and was just about
to go out the door but after reading your
post I decided to post back and give you
my adress. I'll get back to you on monday
if you decide to e-mail me. I'll be here
for about another hour if you'd like to
e-mail me now. You can pour your heart
out if you need to...I'll listen and be
supportive.
