I Like Her, I Think She Likes Me But... Posted: 11-22-05 22:59pm
We are both incredibly shy on the phone
and will probobly be even more reserved in
person.
I met this girl online about a month ago
and I didnt even have the thought of
starting a relationship. Well as time
has gone on I find myself very intrigued
and attracted to this girl. She has a
great sense of humor, we have a lot of
similar interests, shes really cute and in
general we're so much alike its scary
sometimes. However, most of this i've
seen from her online and i've always been
a little cautious about online anything.
I've talked with her a few times over the
phone and she is just so quiet and
reserved, seemingly uninterested. I'm a
very shy person as well so you can imagine
how conversation over the phone is a bit
difficult. I try to break up those
moments of uncomfortable silence, but she
doesnt seem to take to it. Yet I get
online and we dont have any problems at
all.
If anyone has any advice, helpful hints,
or experiance that might help me I would
appreciate it a lot. I would really
like to meet this girl and see if we could
possibly take this somewhere, but the
shyness between us makes this very hard.
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hellohi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005 Posts: 9 Location: California
Posted: 11-23-05 04:30am
Hello. I know exactly the feeling. I'm a
girl who was in a similar situation. Well
I met this guy through aim from my friend.
And we hit it off pretty well. We were
absolutely comfortable talking to each
other online. But we were so nervous to
meet. When we finally did meet in person,
I admit that it felt extrmemly awkward.
We didnt even try the phone because we
knew it would be too awkward. Im usually
outgoing but I was extremely shy. And
trust me... It's a good thing to be shy
when you meet someone because then it
shows that you like them. So trust me...
She likes you :)
anyway, back to the story, things felt
like they were going downhill. We got so
nervous in person. But then I realized
that if I truly liked this guy and I
wanted it to work, then I would just adapt
myself. And I did. My determination to
be involved with this guy caused me to
come out of my shell (his too). He is my
first boyfriend and we are still together.
We've been together for over 10 months.
Now when we look back, we laugh at how
awkward it used to be for us
so my advice to you: if you really want to
get to know her, then go for it! Good
luck :)
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 11-25-05 01:54am
If you like her then go for it hun! When
you're getting to know someone, of course
you're going to be shy. I'm the same
way, I mean you don't know what this
persons reaction would be when you say
something, so you have to get to know them
& their personality.
I met my bf online, well kinda, we went to
the same school *homeschool* he lived like
a hour from me, he dated one of my good
friends & was friends with my bf at
the time..Well we used to dislike each
other lots, then one day I saw a website
of his and we started talking..The first
time I talked to him on the phone I barely
said 10 words, now I look back and im like
wow...But its a pert of getting to know
them. We've now been together for 10
months, planning on getting engaged soon,
and we now see each other all the
time...
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