Try & relax. I know its hard:( I know someone who just got pregnant after trying for 2 years!! They have children together, so they knew it could be done. I guess it wasn't their time until now.

I know I need to just relax and stop stressing but I go to the doctors and they keep wanting to put me on the pills and take this medication but still nothing. I am starting to feel as if I am a dissappointment to my man because its been so long since we have been trying. He is so supportive but I just feel bad.

That's wonderful to hear that you have a supportive man. That really makes a difference. I'm sure things will work out, one way or another. But for now just try & have fun with the sex, & try not to let it become a chore. Having the stress of making a baby - or other stress - can indeed hinder becoming pregnant. I wish you lots of luck!

Sometimes trying to relax doesn't work. I would try the relaxation for about 6 more months and then go see your doc. There might be a hormone (thyroid, androgen...Etc. ) imbalance that is causing you to have irregular menses. I have polycystic ovarian syndrome and have been trying to have another child for 2 years. I still haven't got preg. But the doctors have finally found the problem and I am taking medicine to help get it corrected. Sometimes a simple problem can keep you from getting pregnant. Good luck !!!!!