I am trying to get preg, but my bf doesn't
think we should yet. He's going away for
3 months as of january. I am trying to
get preg without him knowing. I have
stopped my b/c and we never use a condom,
but he always cums on my tummy. Is it
possible for my to put this cum in me with
my finger or w/e...What about precum?
Nice answers only please, I don't need
people telling me i'm stupid and selfish
and w/e
~faithanne
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diamondsz
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Posted: 11-24-05 16:02pm
Depending on your age here an answer
im 21 and married but being in a long
relationship is very similar the rule to
common law/marriage is everything is in
the open, no lies and you have someone to
support you. I kept asking hubby for
kids his words were is it happens it
happens, I have a 15 mths old girl and im
30 weeks prego but hubby was aware of
everything that went on.
A marriage/relationship is based on
trust, friendship and sex I think without
any of these a relationship would fall
apart!!
I would honestly tell bf that you stopped
taking the pill and you want to get prego
and see what he says, yeah he may be abit
angry but you kind of betrayed his trust
but it might also open his eyes and he
decide to want kids. The choice is yours
but honestly he may leave if your not
honest with him or he may feel different
emotions every man is different, if your
man was cheating on you wouldnt you be
upset??? Place yourself in his shoes
before making a decsion im not giving you
hell I just want you to know that this has
a double outcome good or bad.
If you got pregnant he would probaly
support you but how do you think he will
react once he realizes you didnt take your
pill???
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mum2bubba
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Posted: 11-24-05 19:44pm
diamondsz
wrote:
depending on your age here
an answer
im 21 and married but being in a long
relationship is very similar the rule to
common law/marriage is everything is in
the open, no lies and you have someone to
support you. I kept asking hubby for
kids his words were is it happens it
happens, I have a 15 mths old girl and im
30 weeks prego but hubby was aware of
everything that went on.
A marriage/relationship is based on
trust, friendship and sex I think without
any of these a relationship would fall
apart!!
I would honestly tell bf that you stopped
taking the pill and you want to get prego
and see what he says, yeah he may be abit
angry but you kind of betrayed his trust
but it might also open his eyes and he
decide to want kids. The choice is
yours but honestly he may leave if your
not honest with him or he may feel
different emotions every man is different,
if your man was cheating on you wouldnt
you be upset??? Place yourself in his
shoes before making a decsion im not
giving you hell I just want you to know
that this has a double outcome good or
bad.
If you got pregnant he would probaly
support you but how do you think he will
react once he realizes you didnt take your
pill???
i totally agree, you can't just not wear a
condom or stop taking the pill because you
are ready for a baby, if you want this
relationship to work then you both have to
be ready. What are you going to achieve
by being sneaky anyway? Sit down with
your bf and discuss this with him, if he
says hes not ready then respect that and
wait a few years or whatever and see what
happens.
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Surrender
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Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 128 Location: canada
Thanks Posted: 11-25-05 10:15am
I read all the posts people put up and I
took them all to heart. Last night I sat
my fiance down and told him how much I
wanted a baby. I did not tell him I had
stopped taking my bc, but I had decided to
go back on it if he still was against
having children. We talked a long while.
He said it wasn't only his choice. Just
because he didn't want kids didn't mean I
had to suffer. We have decided to wait
until after his 3 month trip and then
we'll try for a baby. Its a bit of a
comprimise for both of us I guess. Thanks
to everyone who posted (nice)
replys...Those mean ones didn't help me at
all and you all should really reconsider
the way you talk to someone you don't
know.
...I guess honesty really does work....
~faithanne
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Surrender
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 128 Location: canada
Thanks Posted: 11-25-05 10:15am
I read all the posts people put up and I
took them all to heart. Last night I sat
my fiance down and told him how much I
wanted a baby. I did not tell him I had
stopped taking my bc, but I had decided to
go back on it if he still was against
having children. We talked a long while.
He said it wasn't only his choice. Just
because he didn't want kids didn't mean I
had to suffer. We have decided to wait
until after his 3 month trip and then
we'll try for a baby. Its a bit of a
comprimise for both of us I guess. Thanks
to everyone who posted (nice)
replys...Those mean ones didn't help me at
all and you all should really reconsider
the way you talk to someone you don't
know.
...I guess honesty really does work....
~faithanne
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diamondsz
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Posted: 11-25-05 12:45pm
Hey faithann
my husband is military and he went away
for training for 4 months when he came
back I definatly got prego
lol.........................
Anyways, i'm happy you told him even
though you forgot to mention a point,
sounds like he took it pretty well,
honesty always has two outcomes good/bad
or angry for a few days and happy after.
There are somedays where a white lie is
warranted like xmas gifts lol!!
I wish you luck just remeber that you
guys are a team and no matter what happens
you should be there for the other,
everything becomes shared when
married/engaged or commonlaw. So money,
kids, household items are no longer yours
or his but boths of yours, keep your head
on straight, if you ever need to talk pm
me!!
