Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 5 Location: st.louis mo
I Dont Want to Do the Pull Out I Want Protection! Posted: 11-24-05 21:34pm
Hey, I really want to tell myboyfriend
that I dont want to do the pull out thing
no more! I want to use protection, but
how is he gon take it?, how should I tell
him, what if he gets mad?
I dont know what to do I already think im
pregnant and if I am im goin to be dead,
plus how would I tell him that? Will he
be there for me? I have so many q's but
no answers...
1)will he take care of the baby if I am
pregnant?
2)should I get an abortion if I am
pregnant?
3)should I tell my parents, even do they
will kill me?
Please help me!
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Sarah1978
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 123 Location: NZ
Posted: 11-24-05 21:53pm
If your boyfriend gets mad at you for
wanting to use some protection then you
are better off without him. This is just
as much his responsibilty as it is yours.
Just be honest and tell him you don't feel
comfortable having sex without protection
any more, i'm sure he will understand.
If you think you could be pregnant take a
test before you start to freak out too
much.
Good luck.
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sweetbabyrae
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 88 Location: traverse city,mi
Posted: 11-24-05 21:55pm
I agree...Hes not worth it if he cant do
it the way you want him to. That is your
choice.
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Carifairy
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Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 2568 Location: Charlotte n.c.
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Posted: 11-24-05 23:49pm
I am 23 and in the nursing field. Any man
who won't use protection is not worth you!
Second abortion is a decision you should
make yourself, not by being forced. If
you want to have an abortion, then yes it
is an option. You also do not parents
consent, and if you need help with this
you can email me. Some states do not
require parents consent, and you can
travel to others. You can also get a
judicial bypass which lets you get an
abortion without parents. Call planned
parenthood they offer birth control and
pregnancy testing without parents consent.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 11-25-05 02:01am
Hun, if you don't want to do the pull out
method then tell him that, if he doesn't
like it then oh well, it's your body.
You're 13, you shouldn't be having sex
anyways but if you are then you need to
get protected..Wait until your older to
have a child. If you are pregnant then
you need to tell your parents, so you can
the the right care for you and the baby.
As for abortion, I think it's wrong
because you're the one who got yourself
pregnant, not the babys fault, but again
that is your decision. Always think about
adoption 2! I'm here if you need to
talk!! <3
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