Hey um im not really used to fourums but I
guess im supossed to tell you about my
problems and hope that some one can help..
Well thats what I want to do anyway. So
here goes. Right recently I have been
finding it hard to go to school and I dont
know why its just I get scared :roll:
wich sounds kinda stupid I know but I do
and I dont know why ive tryed thinking of
everything I just dont like to be around
alot of people. Any way the thing is when
my mum has been getting me up for school
and not letting me have the day off we row
but I have a really bad temper and I lash
out at her in other words I hit her, its
just the thing is I dont know im doing it
untill ive done it, like its not me doing
it, any way its been happening with just
little arguements at the moment. Me and
mum have tryed to talk about it but that
just turns in to an arguement with me
hitting her again. I really need help
becuase I dont know what to do any more I
have to see asocial worker next week but I
really dont want to be taken awya from my
mum so if any of you know how to help me
then let me know please!!! :cry: :cry:
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 11-25-05 14:40pm
There may be a chemical imbalabce in you
that a .Dr can help you with. Other than
that it could just be a bad temper. But
I feel a mental .Dr might do you some
good. Good luck--i know you must feel
terrible. Sorry this is happening to
you.
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Xineedhelpx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Somerset
??? Posted: 11-25-05 16:23pm
Where do I find a "mental .Dc" are you
saying im mental?? My friends say it
could be a form of schizophrenia. Becuase
I dont know im doing it and its not like
me to do this sort of thing!
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delancey
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2005 Posts: 181 Location: UK
Posted: 11-25-05 18:41pm
I know exactly how u feel...
It's anxiety and frustration that's
causing you to get angry at ur mum,
i'm the same with my parents sometimes.
Ever thought of seeing a counceler or
psychiatrist?
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Xineedhelpx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Somerset
Posted: 11-26-05 05:22am
Like I said I have to go and see social
services next week how theyre gonna help I
dont know but hey. Any way things are
just getting worse my dad works away in
the weeks and comes home on a friday.
Well he came home last night and was all
happy then this morning one thing got out
of hand and he pulled my hair really hard
so hard it was nearly coming out and
slapped me around the face I didnt even do
any thing wrong all I did was answer his
question but becuase I have a cold my
voice is croaky and it sounded like I said
it meanly so he got all angry at me so I
walked out of the room calmly so as not to
start a row and he folowed me and got all
stressy with me now with me having my bad
temper and all I got stressy back at him
then he did what I said so I went up in to
my room to try and calm down and I did so
I came back down and sat at the computer
to continue playing on the sims and he
came in and started to shout at me again
so I phoned my grandparents and my
garnadad was like well its about time he
gave you a slap that really upset me so I
hung up and told him I hate him. Then I
went on msn and talked to a few people
then my best friend started having a go at
me saying stop being such a drama queen we
all know your not going to kill your self
( I had my name as im going to kill my
self) any way I told her to f*ck off and
that she only cares abpout her self then
blocked her and so far thats whats happend
this weekend. And I relly wanna talk to
my brother becuase he is the only one who
listens and underlands but hes gone out
paint balling and im really scared becuase
its just me and my dad in the house and I
dont want him to hurt me again. :cry:
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Xineedhelpx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Somerset
Posted: 11-26-05 09:56am
Does any one want to help me???
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diamondsz
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Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3173 Location: , Candyland-Canada
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Posted: 11-26-05 10:11am
Get the heck out of your home
your father is just as bad and for your
safety I think you need to remove yourslef
from that environment, I dont know th
whole story but what right does he have to
hit you. If my daughter ever hit me for
no reason I would press charges and
honestly I dont think your mom would have
put up with it either there is underlying
abuse going on in that home. I did
stupid stuff when I was kid and although
my dad hit me, I never hit him back but I
stood up to him one and he never hit me
again and now he wont even touch the other
kids......
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stressbattle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 11-26-05 10:40am
Yea, I agree with diomansz. Get out of
your home and try to get some help from
other family members, like your cousins or
uncles. It's no use sitting at home
waiting for something to happen. Do
something about it now.
