Joined: 22 Oct 2005 Posts: 53 Location: bc, canaduh
Unsexy Posted: 11-26-05 02:03am
My waist has expanded 20 inches. My
breasts have grown from a 36c to 38dd.
My nails are long and beautiful. My hair
is dull and flat. My hands and feet are
swollen. I'm tired and my back hurts.
However, I am horny as heck and have a
heartier sexual appetite than ever before.
My problem is: boyfriend is not
interested in sex. Period. Ever. He
won't give me a clear reason why.
Figured it's 'cause i'm looking rather
mom-like. Anyone else having sexual
difficulties/frustrations during prenancy?
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tsweitzer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 95 Location: Maryland
Posted: 12-05-05 23:50pm
I wish I had your problem sometimes...I am
29 weeks pregnant and I feel like sex is
becoming more and more uncomfortable...I
can barely tie my shoes...Let alone get
myself comfortable enough in bed to want
to have someone on top of me lol...If your
man is anything like mine he is probably
not turned off by your growing stomach and
changing looks...They say many men find
woman the most beautiful than ever during
their pregnancy. I would just talk to him
about how you feel, maybe he is afraid he
will hurt you in some way....If you two
are in love than I am sure he thinks you
look great and wants to be with you
romantically just as much as you want to
be with him...
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 12-06-05 00:16am
It all depends---some guys are attracted
to the sexy and available woman, and the
sexy beautiful pregnant mother of his
child. Turns him on more.
But some men cant get past the whole "mom"
thing. She no longer is appealing to him
as a sexy available women, now she is the
boring ole house wife. Some men are just
like that. Usually after the baby is
born--they return to somewhat normal
attraction to the woman, and some never
get the sex appeal back.
I am not trying to say your husband or bf
is like that, but I am just saying--men
are like that sometimes.
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Sammy001
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 706 Location: ,
Posted: 12-16-05 16:43pm
I was super horney when I was pregnant
too, and my husband wouldn't touch me.
It hurt my feelings alot. Like you, my
hair went weird, but my nails looked fresh
from a manicure the entire time. My skin
also was radiant. I was lucky I didn't
get any maternity acne at all.
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AEinstein
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 29
Posted: 02-17-06 08:48am
I have been extremely horny since the very
beginning. My significant other & I
had sexual issues (problems) before we
even conceived so now that I am pregnant,
we never have sex. He is addicted to
pornography, which makes me feel even
better about the way I look. Talking to
him just makes it worse. He tells me to
get over myself & grow up. Sometimes
I can't believe I am having a child with
this man.
But some men go through what is called the
'madonna complex'. Meaning that they
look at their wife, or lover, mother of
their child, as too good & pure to be
tainted with the act of sex. It can
possibly fade, or it can be a curse the
woman must bare for her eternity with that
man.
I am 35 weeks pregnant & can you tell
I am not really liking men all too much
right now. Just the men in my immediate
vicinity.
My advice to you; if it is not against
your belief structure, masturbate alot!!
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 02-17-06 19:17pm
Lol.....Feel lucky guys...In my 1st
trimester I was super horney and got wet
reaaall easy...Now i'm 30 weeks and
couldn't get wet if I squirted myself with
a hose!!!! Lmao!!!
Dry spells are totally normal...Just
extreemely frustrating!!!
I would def. Take every porn tape your
man has and burn it!! He might as well be
cheating on you!! My dad had a bad porn
problem and it tore him and my mom apart
so I don't play when it comes to porn!!
It's not allowed at all...I told my man in
the beginning that I didn't allow it and
if that was going to be a problem..Then we
were gonna have a problem....
Different strokes for different folks!!
Lmao...It's an addiction unlike any other
I guess....
Masturbation is a good thing as long as
your partner is involved!!
I used to love being eaten out but now I
can't even see him when he's down
there!!!!! Hahahaha...I know it's
.T.M.I....But I couldn't help myself!!!
Good .Luck .Yall!!
Sarah
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pachopperkyle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Feb 2006 Posts: 60 Location: pa
Posted: 02-20-06 01:55am
I cant stand to think about sex while
being pregnant
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