Ponder This...

Jealousy is a curse young lady !!!

Exactly, I agree with my friend suzy. You shouldnt be so jealous, it makes you ugly.


Oh and do you ever notice how no one pays attention to you? Maybe thats because your not important here and everyone likes us and our advise. I dont see you posting...

You are so mean...They are not acting like they know it all...They are just trying to help. That's y we're here...Isnt it.

Jennifer

i love both nikki & suzy's inputs

I agree with jennifer! Nikki and suzy have done nothing but give advice and love to everyone around here and I cherish them both deeply, and so do a great deal of other people so if you dont like them then maybe you should keep your opinions to yourself because no one else on here that I have seen so far agrees with you! Melissa

They would never post anything to hurt anyone...And obviously you do!

I love you girls!! You are so sweet!

I got a question....Where are these things where they have supposedly been "sticking there noses in others business"??? I dont see them and second
if someone doesn't want people to know their problems they obviously wouldnt put it on the internet on a health forum to get jee lets see help

nikki and suzy we love you girls dont listen to this person

I love them both

Hehe see we all love you guys

Thankyou everyone for your lovely comments. Silks, everyone on ehealth is here to help people and share their experiences with others. I have been pregnant 3 times, had 1 miscarriage, and I am 5 months pregnant right now. Therefore I like to share my experiences with others in the pregnancy forum. Nikki is planning her family as we speak, she also has sisters who have children, and she was there every step of the way, so she also likes to share her experiences with others on the subject. Goodness if that's a crime then shoot me. Sometimes I find that talking with others about the things that has happened to them helps me to understand a whole lot more about myself aswell. I have learnt and shared so much since being here, and I value all the information I can possibly get, and that is why we have forums, for that very reason alone. As humans, we crave the help and support of others, and you are not doing anyone any favours by putting down others who are trying to help people who are sometimes screaming out for help because they have no one else to talk to. Please use a bit of common sense and realise that no one has come here to cause trouble for others, people come here asking for help, so it is hardly considered "sticking your nose in" when you answer, is it. You are way off target, and you are making yourself look rather silly, and if I didn't know any better i'd say you were a very jealous person who envies everyone that is doing something nice. Maybe you should try being nice to someone, and just see how it makes you feel. Smile at the little old granny in the supermarket that you don't even know, and see what kind of response you get, I think you will be surprised. From what I know of you so far, I get the impression that you have many issues of your own that you are dealing with and you are a very unhappy person, and if you weren't so nasty everyone would have been here to help you through what ever it is. Try a different approach silks, because there is a lot of valuable information here, you just have to ask. Life is very short silks, be the best person you can be, love your family and those close to you, and always make yourself available to help others. I guarantee, you will get all this in return.

Have a great christmas everyone !

She has issues

Obviously we were right...No more mean posts!

Jennifer

I find it absolutely absurd that all you idiots cannot see through the deceit and utter tediousness of the responses of theses two individuals. I am not jealous nor mad at these two individuals rather I am angry that they feel so mighty and high that they have the ability to pop their head not only in the pregnancy forum but also all over the place to give advice to absolutely everyone. How dare they assume they know it all! I too was once looking for advice and sought out such council but I was absolutely repulsed to see that these women were not giving advice for the well being to console others; they were doing it out of sheer boredom. If you look at their track records they speak for themselves… nikki_caro has 2002 posts while suzy has 492 posts…that’s not giving advice to people because they care that’s being bored and justifying to themselves they have the right to just offer whatever kind of notion or counsel they “think” they can provide. I am a nice person and it sickens me to see that you have turned this entire post session of how I should be nice… I am the only honest person here right now… I see things clearly and with straight intent as they are meant to be seen. Posting something like that to me was not to offer me guidance on how I can be a better person, it was to share what kind of manipulative person you can be. Both of you disgust me! You should absolutely be ashamed to think that people are as naive to believe that what two joe-blows from the internet thinks is a console or guidance to them. I do not and will not retract what I said. So I remain that you two should stop shoveling so much crap that you cannot see anymore! Now I will ask again: does anyone notice how nicky and suzy stick their two senses into everything??? Don’t’ patronize me or think this is not what I mean to say its with direct intent and absolute purpose. Open your eyes your not wanted everywhere!

Ok if you call helping people solve their problems with advice and answers to the best of their knowledge posting out of shear boredom, then maybe so, but think of it this way if nikki hadn't had 2002 posts and suzy 492 then think of all those people who wouldn't have had any responses to their questions. People come on here for help and nikki and suzy are two of the most dedicated people who offer that! If you don't want or need their advice then don't reply to them! Plain and simple!

I was just wondering if we are all adults here?

No I am not!

O.K I am going to try to say this in a way that will not offend anyone. O.K, first, silk, you are entitled to your opinion. Everyone is. What you say about nikki and suzy makes me feel like crap because I am also on this site quite a bit. I give advice about things that I have been through and on subjects that I know at least a little bit about. I am not only on the pregnancy forum either. In fact, I am hardly ever on this particular forum. I cruise through quite a bit of the forums and answer the questions that I can. This is not a forum to seek advice from a professional. Nikki and suzy do not do anything but answer questions for people the best that they can. If you really think that they only do it out of boredom, then you must also think the same of a lot of us. I am on this site almost everyday and I have quite a lot of posts. However, I have never been logged onto this site for longer than a half of an hour. Some people watch t.V. Some people cross-stitch or bake. I, in my spare time, log onto this site and see if I can help anyone.
You do not have to agree with what anyone says on this forum, and you do not have to believe any of it. But if you do not like someone for just trying to help then you should probably keep it to yourself.
And if no one wanted nikki or suzy on this site anymore, then someone would have agreed to your post.
I am not trying to be mean to you, but if you do not like nikki or suzy, or anyone else for that matter, then maybe yould just not read their posts.
I am not making fun of or patronizing you. I just think that you shouldn't be so hateful to people who are just trying to help other people.
A lot of people find it easier to talk to people that they do not know about their problems then with someone that they do. I like to think that we are all helping to do our part to help someone. Even if I only help one person, I think it is worth it.
God bless

Actually, suzy and I have had a few words with each other because she was being horribly rude to a fellow "poster"... As for nikki, it is kind of hard to take pregnancy advice from someone who has never been pregnant. I understand what you are saying, but I think they're harmless.

Super cute baby :d