I read the post on how you can get
pregnant that easily...But I have a little
different situation.
Me and my boyfriend had intercourse for a
few seconds, because it was kind of a
slip. Not for more than 5 seconds.
Maybe twice it happened. He never came
on me, or in me, not even pre.
This happened 15 days ago. I have been
paranoid out of my mind that im pregnant,
crying and being completely out of hand
about it. Ive not yet had my period, but
I have never been regular with my
menstrual cycle, and had my period for
about 3 1/2 years now.
I have been pressing on my stomach trying
to feel anything forming, and nothing of
course. I am fairly thin so i've been
watching my stomach like a hawk. When I
lie down, I can suck in my stomach to
about half its size, with no bulges. My
waist is 27."
i am wondering, though I know it is
different for every woman, when I can
expect to have changes in my body if I am
pregnant.
Can someone, please, im begging you, tell
me that since I did not have full on sex
that my chances are lower for being
pregnant??
I dont know what im going to do if I am,
it's not right that some women who
desprately want children can't concieve,
and on the other end of the spectrum, a
woman who is on birth control pills and
uses condoms and doesn't have intercourse
on her ovulation day, get pregnant.
I'll stop rambling now, but im begging,
someone, please help me?!
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Cambion
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Posted: 11-27-05 23:05pm
Whoa, whoa, calm down, hon! Deep breaths.
I would bet money that you're missing
your period now because you're stressing
like crazy. If you and your boyfriend did
not have full-on sex and there was no
semen involved, and these 'encounters'
lasted only a few seconds, I think your
chances of conceiving are quite slim.
Yes, there's always the possibility of
getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, but I
believe the guy needs a little more than 5
seconds worth of action to get it to be
released.
I think you're safe, but if you are
desperately worried, see if you can take a
home pregnancy test. If you get a
negative, but are still not satisfied, see
if you can arrange to have a blood test
done. They are rarely wrong, if at all,
and it'll give you the truth you seek. I
know it's hard, but try not to stress out
so much - you're making yourself sick. I
know what it feels like to be in your
position, and as unreal as you think it
may be that you aren't pregnant, it'll
feel like you had the world lifted off
your shoulders when you see that negative
test result. Sometimes we can't go by
words alone - we need that physical and
visual proof in our hands that tells us
we're not pregnant.
And hey, ramble all you want, girl -
that's what message boards are for. :)
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Cambion
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2005 Posts: 748
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Posted: 11-27-05 23:11pm
Whoa, whoa, calm down, hon! Deep breaths.
I would bet money that you're missing
your period now because you're stressing
like crazy. If you and your boyfriend did
not have full-on sex and there was no
semen involved, and these 'encounters'
lasted only a few seconds, I think your
chances of conceiving are quite slim.
Yes, there's always the possibility of
getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, but I
believe the guy needs a little more than 5
seconds worth of action to get it to be
released.
I think you're safe, but if you are
desperately worried, see if you can take a
home pregnancy test. If you get a
negative, but are still not satisfied, see
if you can arrange to have a blood test
done. They are rarely wrong, if at all,
and it'll give you the truth you seek. I
know it's hard, but try not to stress out
so much - you're making yourself sick. I
know what it feels like to be in your
position, and as unreal as you think it
may be that you aren't pregnant, it'll
feel like you had the world lifted off
your shoulders when you see that negative
test result. Sometimes we can't go by
words alone - we need that physical and
visual proof in our hands that tells us
we're not pregnant.
And hey, ramble all you want, girl -
that's what message boards are for. :)