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kibbler0121

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I Just...don't Know??
Posted: 11-27-05 21:38pm

I read the post on how you can get pregnant that easily...But I have a little different situation.
Me and my boyfriend had intercourse for a few seconds, because it was kind of a slip. Not for more than 5 seconds. Maybe twice it happened. He never came on me, or in me, not even pre.
This happened 15 days ago. I have been paranoid out of my mind that im pregnant, crying and being completely out of hand about it. Ive not yet had my period, but I have never been regular with my menstrual cycle, and had my period for about 3 1/2 years now.
I have been pressing on my stomach trying to feel anything forming, and nothing of course. I am fairly thin so i've been watching my stomach like a hawk. When I lie down, I can suck in my stomach to about half its size, with no bulges. My waist is 27."
i am wondering, though I know it is different for every woman, when I can expect to have changes in my body if I am pregnant.
Can someone, please, im begging you, tell me that since I did not have full on sex that my chances are lower for being pregnant??
I dont know what im going to do if I am, it's not right that some women who desprately want children can't concieve, and on the other end of the spectrum, a woman who is on birth control pills and uses condoms and doesn't have intercourse on her ovulation day, get pregnant.
I'll stop rambling now, but im begging, someone, please help me?!
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Cambion

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Posted: 11-27-05 23:05pm

Whoa, whoa, calm down, hon! Deep breaths. I would bet money that you're missing your period now because you're stressing like crazy. If you and your boyfriend did not have full-on sex and there was no semen involved, and these 'encounters' lasted only a few seconds, I think your chances of conceiving are quite slim. Yes, there's always the possibility of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, but I believe the guy needs a little more than 5 seconds worth of action to get it to be released.

I think you're safe, but if you are desperately worried, see if you can take a home pregnancy test. If you get a negative, but are still not satisfied, see if you can arrange to have a blood test done. They are rarely wrong, if at all, and it'll give you the truth you seek. I know it's hard, but try not to stress out so much - you're making yourself sick. I know what it feels like to be in your position, and as unreal as you think it may be that you aren't pregnant, it'll feel like you had the world lifted off your shoulders when you see that negative test result. Sometimes we can't go by words alone - we need that physical and visual proof in our hands that tells us we're not pregnant.

And hey, ramble all you want, girl - that's what message boards are for. :)
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Cambion

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Posted: 11-27-05 23:11pm

Whoa, whoa, calm down, hon! Deep breaths. I would bet money that you're missing your period now because you're stressing like crazy. If you and your boyfriend did not have full-on sex and there was no semen involved, and these 'encounters' lasted only a few seconds, I think your chances of conceiving are quite slim. Yes, there's always the possibility of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, but I believe the guy needs a little more than 5 seconds worth of action to get it to be released.

I think you're safe, but if you are desperately worried, see if you can take a home pregnancy test. If you get a negative, but are still not satisfied, see if you can arrange to have a blood test done. They are rarely wrong, if at all, and it'll give you the truth you seek. I know it's hard, but try not to stress out so much - you're making yourself sick. I know what it feels like to be in your position, and as unreal as you think it may be that you aren't pregnant, it'll feel like you had the world lifted off your shoulders when you see that negative test result. Sometimes we can't go by words alone - we need that physical and visual proof in our hands that tells us we're not pregnant.

And hey, ramble all you want, girl - that's what message boards are for. :)
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