Okay well a few weeks ago me and my
boyfriend were fooling around and we didnt
have a condom so we didnt want to have
sex. But we ended up have sex for lyk
2min thats it. And he said that he
doesnt pre cum ..That he checked before
and he doesnt and he tthinks everything is
fine but I am still scared. Also my
period isnt until the 19 of next month..
I dont want to be scared until then. I am
only 15 I dont want to be pregnant! Can
u please help me! I couldnt be pregnant
could i? :?
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Capagrl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2005 Posts: 34 Location: PA
Posted: 11-28-05 14:35pm
Of course you could be pregnant - his
unprotected penis inside of you makes the
possibility exist. Him claiming not to
pre-cum is a load in and of itself -
pre-cum is beyond a man's (or boy's)
control, kind of like your vaginal
discharge.
Without knowing the dates of your last
period (assuming november 21st?), whether
or not that period was normal or knowing
the date a "couple weeks ago" when you did
this, it's hard to say how likely it is
that you're pregnant. Odds are good
that, if you're regular (which most
teenage girls are not), you wouldn't be
ovulating until december 3rd or so - that
would mean you're probably not pregnant
this time.
Sorry to say, but if you don't want to get
pregnant, having unprotected sex (even
for, like, 2 minutes) isn't the way to
achieve that. Maybe you'll remember how
scared you are now the next time you guys
just can't seem to control yourselves?
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dlisiouss
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2004 Posts: 107 Location: PA
Posted: 11-28-05 16:22pm
Don't worry precum usually isn't enough to
get u pregnant... Be more careful tho.
Ur still young and I just found out 2day I
have hpv from having sex w/ out a condom.
I didn't think nothing could happen to me
because all the men i've been with said
they got checked. Don't listen to men,
they don't know what theye're talking
about (most of the time).
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scruffles
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 84 Location: new york
Posted: 11-28-05 16:33pm
Best bet is to wait 2 weeks after the date
you had sex and take an early pregnancy
test like answer, or clear blue. Just
stay calm. The same thing happened to me
2 weeks ago and I got my period today.
Keep your head up and be more responsible
with sex. You are too young to be a mom
and too young to be stressed over this.
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-29-05 09:43am
More than likely you arent pregnant,
although there is a slim chance, b/c like
someone said, guysdont know if there is
precum or not.
So lets learn a lesson here okay? Be
prepared with condoms and if the mood hits
you and you dont have any then dont have
intersourse, ther are ways to be intimate
without it. Oral sex, a handjob, etc.
Or better yet go to planned parenthood and
get on some birth control pills . You
are so young to have to worry about
getting pregnant!
Oh and by the way normal couples trying to
conceive only have a 25%-30% chance of
getting pregnant ea. Month. However I
have known girls who even got pregnant
while on the pill, so better to use both
condom and a form of birth control like
the pill, the patch, etc.
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SailorGirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Florida
Re: I Need Help. Posted: 11-29-05 10:25am
myself 01
wrote:
okay well a few weeks ago me
and my boyfriend were fooling around and
we didnt have a condom so we didnt want to
have sex. But we ended up have sex for
lyk 2min thats it. And he said that he
doesnt pre cum ..That he checked before
and he doesnt and he tthinks everything is
fine but I am still scared. Also my
period isnt until the 19 of next month..
I dont want to be scared until then. I
am only 15 I dont want to be pregnant!
Can u please help me! I couldnt be
pregnant could i?
:?
you could definately be pregnant. Precum
and semen can be microscopic, and it only
takes a small amount of sperm to get
pregnant.
You can get pregnant from having sperm on
the outside of your vagina also. Those
little suckers know where to go.
Anyways, I hope you go get a morning after
pill. Its much safer than abortion, and
causes alot less stress for women. I had
an abortion, and believe me, it was not a
good experience.
sorry, but ever since I saw these
pictures, I have been very pro life. Just
do that emergency contraception (morning
after pill) and save yourself alot of
money, time, heartache, and scarring.
Youre too young to be allowed that kind of
misery. Any doctor can prescribe you
birth control pills, also. So if you hava
a hard time finding a place to prescribe
you the pills, or are concerned that
someone wont fill the prescription, I
believe you can easily get a bc script as
if it was just for bc and not ec. If you
are in a small community, just go get a
prescription for brth control pills, and
then go to planned parenthoods website for
dosing instructions, in youre emergency
circumstance.
hopefully this wont get deleted, and the
site will support the links.
Otherwise, look up "illegal abortion"
"coerced abortion" and "abortion clinic
crime" you can also look up "abortion
photos" to further your education on the
subject.
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Too Late For the Morning After Pill... Posted: 12-01-05 03:46am
She said she had unprotected sex a few
weeks ago so it is too late for the
morning after pill- at the very latest it
can be used 5 days after intercourse...
And hopefully she isnt pregnant and that
she wont have an abortion maybe consider
adoption if not keeping the baby.
But at this point she doesnt even know if
she is or isnt pregnant..
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SailorGirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Florida
Posted: 12-02-05 23:46pm
Its not too late for emergency b/c... I
think it can be taken still, with
something like a 25% effective rate three
weeks later. Of course, this is a 15 year
old girl, so she might have exaggerated
her time frame also. Still, its worth a
try! Shes not getting her period for a
couple more weeks, and "conception" may
have happened, without attachment to the
uterus, so ec would still be an option..
If it had really been 3 weeks, she would
have already had her november period since
the unprotected sex, which means the
conception, may be only happening as of
right now, but it can be stopped before it
attaches to the uterus, with e.C..
