Ok -- i've recently started having sex
with my boyfriend. We don't do it often,
just once or twice a week. My problem is
that it's still painful. It's getting
easier to actually get in and get the job
done, but the pain is still there -- last
night I bled after sex. (he's average
size and isn't rough at all)
when is this going to start feeling
awesome? Should I do it more often so I
get more used to it? I'm just getting all
in my head that something's wrong with me,
and I don't think that anything is since
everthing feels healthy enough. I guess
what i'm asking is... When did it become
less painful for you guys? I really want
to enjoy it, but it's hard when it hurts
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mama0789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 19 Location: blue island IL
Posted: 11-28-05 14:07pm
My 1st it hurt but after that I didnt, if
it still hurts try to do it more. And
maybe he didnt pop your cherry yet, b/c
sometimes you can pop it but not all the
way, tell him to go deep to make sure that
it pop. B/c when it pops it will feel
good after that. My 1st time mine got
poped theys why it didnt hurt after that.
Hope this helps let me know!!!
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babykitty23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Florida
Posted: 11-30-05 02:10am
It's probably a lack of foreplay. If my
husband doesn't get me wet enough, it
hurts to have sex. Men have a tendancy to
"stick it in" a little too soon. Tell him
to slowly put it in, it should help with
the pain=)
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solar001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Weston, FL
Posted: 11-30-05 08:42am
This is going to sound gross, immature and
invasive, but i'm going to ask anyways:
have you tried the finger? I think that's
helped me get used to it, it's probably
what broke my hymen. Again, i'm sure that
this is like going back to early teen
years, but it's my advice.
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megan099
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Aug 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 11-30-05 13:44pm
We tried again this morning, and it still
hurt, but the more we went on it hurt a
little less. It was still painful. Is
this a good sign? Is there anything that
could be wrong with me? Like, is there
some vaginal issue that causes painful
sexual intercourse? The thing is though,
nothing feels wrong down there, it doesn't
itch and there's no abnormal discharge.
And no solar001, i've never used a finger,
and barely ever tampons.
I'm just really freaked out, I don't want
anything to be wrong with me and I want to
have some good sex
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labellaprincezz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Philadelphia
.... Posted: 11-30-05 15:25pm
I wa slike that for a month... Everybody
is different. Try inserting slowly and
sitting still for a whilee then try having
sex. It workied forme. I use to be
scared to have sex the next day after I
broke my virginity, because I didn't want
it to hurt. Try getting on top, different
positions. If you feel as though there
somethings wrong go to the clinc. You
might have cervical abrsions,. It's
common in girls. Maybe he might have been
rough your first time and your body has to
adapt to it. You don' tfeel anything if
you have abrasions, but you'll bleed after
sex or it may feel wird when you pee. If
you don' twant to go to the doctors
abrsions heal on there own, but if you
start to feel pain in your abdominal area
you could have scare tissue(highly
unlikely) then you should go to the
doctors.
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megan099
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Aug 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 11-30-05 16:48pm
Ok, I did some online research and maybe
he's hitting my cervix? At the point, the
pain is really only evident when he
reaches the end of each thrust (sorry for
being graphic). Could this be it?
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labellaprincezz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Philadelphia
Posted: 12-01-05 22:32pm
It could because it happened to me and it
hurt for several (4days) afterwards
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sally8948
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 2 Location: united states
Posted: 12-02-05 12:50pm
Times can be tough. When you start your
session, foreplay for a while. Have him
lick and suck your virgina. His saliva
should lubracate the inner. Now if your
extremly tight then you or your friend
should try the three finger method.
Insert one finger and play gently, then
another,then another. Be sure to use
lubracation jelly and you will enjoy.
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