Well im still not having my period. I
took 2 tests and they both said negative.
I need to go to the Dr. But my boyfriend
won't take me. We are fighting right now
and he has left me here at home for 2 days
now. All because I wanted him to stop
smoking weed. Is that so wrong? He has a
good job and he is on probation, he will
end up going back to jail if he keeps this
up. Just the sight of him angers me off.
I hate him so much, but im kinda stuck
here because I dont have a car and I dont
have any family living around here.
Anyone have any kind words for me? Thanks
a lot you guys!
Jenny :(
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3717 Location: , va
Posted: 11-28-05 22:05pm
You could always go to the hospital. Im
sure they have an ambulance... Also if
you have medicaid or anything like that.
I was told that they have a number that
you can call to get free transp. To and
from the doc. Office..
Good luck to you
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kezia333
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2005 Posts: 133 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-29-05 00:46am
I had a boyfriend like that for four
years. He was really controlling and all
of that, and hung out with the wrong
crowd. I did have a scare with pregnancy
also, and since he wouldn't help, I
decided to start making plans to get away
from him.
If I was you I would try to get a hold
of a family member you can stay with, and
if you don't want to leave him then you
can get a number of a clinic out of the
phone book or online. Most of the
clinics are free and will help you with
transportaion and anything else you need,
my sister and myself had to go to one when
we were with our old boyfriends. Hope
that helped, want more advice or to know
more about my situation just let me know.
Sorry so long.
Kezia
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MAL3430
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 24 Location: Milwaukee
Posted: 11-29-05 09:31am
My son's bio father was like that, except
he didn't have a good job nor could keep
any job. He was positivly horrible - I
didn't see it, or I denied it - the
bruises included. He moved me away from
my family and friends, made sure I didn't
have a car - or phone(he liked to take it
with him to make sure I couldn't call
anyone) and refused to take his meds.
(he is now in jail for 10years on an
unrelated sentence - and knows nothing of
my son, my son has been raised by my now
hubby since he was 2 and calls him dad -
my hubby will be adopting him within the
next year!!).
I finally had enough - and one day after
he left I walked 2miles to a payphone and
collect called my family - who had the gas
station attendant drive me to a hotel and
paid for it while they drove done to get
me.
I lived with my parents for 2years getting
back on my feet. They helped with my son
very little, I raised him. I paid my
mother to babysit so I could work 4weeks
after his birth $200.00 per week. They
did not help with nightly feedings to let
me sleep ect... I know it sounds mean -
but it wasn't, they let me raise him on my
own and I appreciate it!!
I did get financal assistance for about a
year until I got back on my feet - thats
what it is there for, as a crutch for
you.
Do what you have to do to get out!! Call
a women's shelter, usually at least in my
area they will pay your cab fair or send
someone to pick you up.
I'm sorry - but this isn't going to get
any better - get out now for your own
health.
Michelle
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-29-05 09:35am
I agree with the above about getting away
from him, he sounds like a real jerk and
you deserve better, and the good guy s are
out there!
Anyway, if you dont have a friend or
family member who can take you, find the
closest obgyn and take a cab.. Or a
bus...
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MAL3430
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 24 Location: Milwaukee
Posted: 11-29-05 09:55am
Had another thought - don't know where you
live, but you would be shocked at the
amount of people willing to help you - do
you have a drug store in walking distance,
usally the pharmisit (sorry spelling!!)
will have number to help you.
Or if all else fails - call your local
police department (not 911) and tell them
of your situation, you can keep his name
secret if you would like to (i personally
wouldn't - if he is willing to risk your
health by not helping take you to the
doctor because you asked him to stop doing
drugs, do him a favor and let the police
now - i'm sure his prob. Officer will be
more than willing to help!!) but the
police are required to help you.
Michelle
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 11-30-05 08:10am
Yeah right on. Time to take charge of
your life and never let anyone control you
like this!!
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