Any Chance I Could Be Pregnant Posted: 11-28-05 21:25pm
Ok im 14 and yes I have a feeling this is
going to be a stupid question but I am soo
scared right now about this that its not
even funny..Ok here it goes..Umm abotu 3
weeks ago me and another guy we at my
house and he kept sticking his hands down
my pants now I did not let him go and
lower then my like I guess u'd call it
"boney part" cuz I did not want him to
finger me or anything so I would pull his
hand out..I dont think he had any sperm or
anything on his hand cuz it didnt feel
wet..And I didnt see him touch him self at
all..But if he had sum on his hands and
wiped it off and touched me there could it
sum how gotten to my vagina part? I mean
I swear he didnt even get close enough to
finger me..Cuz I didnt want it I kept
pulling his hand out..So could I be
pregnant?..And one more time like last
friday (novmeber 25th) he was with me
again and kept pulling my hand to his
dick..And I would take it off..I think
like once of twice I might of (i dont know
for sure) had his "pre-cum" on my
hands..But then he would like rub my hands
and then I like wiped my hands on his
shirt..Well about 20-30 minutes later he
left I touched like the door and about 4
other things and then I went to the
bathroom..And I remember what I was on my
hands and freaked out and washed my
hands..Could I of gotten pregnant from
that? I mean im due for my period this
friday..But im on this stupid birthcontrol
that isnt even a high enough dosage to be
called birthcontrol to supposivly "stop"
my attitude..But i've only been on that
for like 2 weeks..And its suppose to be
the kind that makes u only have a period
every 3 months..So it might mess up my
period timing and plus i've only had my
period for like 9-10 or less months
now...So idk..But im really scared and I
know these are prolly dumb ?'s and im srry
to bother you guys with them, but I dont
want to talk to anyone else that I kno
about them..Esepcially my mom..So can you
please answer them and maybe e-mail me
back with answers..I'll take as many as I
can..But please help!! My e-mail is car
dballchik21@yahoo.Com just e-mail me
and tell ur answer please!?!
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 11-28-05 21:55pm
No your not pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!! Not by
what you are telling us..
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SailorGirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Florida
Posted: 11-29-05 10:50am
Since youve only been on the birth control
a couple of weeks, and have (what I think
is) reason to believe that this guy (this
jerk, by the way) might have gotten some
semen on you in the exterior vaginal
area.. I am going to say its safer to
just go see if you can go on a morning
after pill, just in case.
You can get pregnant from having semen on
the outer area of your vagina, on your
lips, clitoris.. They know where to go
from there.
And also, semen can live for up to 30
minutes outside of the body, as long as
the temperature is below body the average
normal body temperature. Thats why a mans
scrotum hangs outside of the body, to keep
the sperm cool, and alive.
Also, when women are trying to concieve,
their husbands are usually told to wear
boxer shorts rather than briefs, in order
to keep more sperm alive longer. (it
allows cool air to enter the underwear
region, keeping the sperm cooler, and
alive, rather than wearing briefs that
push the scrotum against the body, and
keep it warmer, thus killing the sperm)
not a stupid question.. But still..
Highly unlikely that youre pregnant,
anyways.
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wooried05
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: atlanta
Not to Worry Posted: 11-29-05 20:21pm
Sweetie there is no reason to believe your
pregnant. However I think you should let
this guy know your not ready to take that
next step. It sounds like he's pressuring
you. Stay calm everythings okay.
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leigh10
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 11-30-05 15:49pm
I think (and i'm sure other's will agree)
that it is highly unlikely that you are
pregnant. Something I am sure
of......This guy is a serious jerk to
continue this type of behavior after you
have pushed him away. I hate to lecture
you, and I know it's none of my business,
but I am 23 and I dated alot before I met
my hubby, so I know how persistant
boys/men can be. You have to be extremely
firm with them and make sure that they
know what they are doing is not ok! Push
them away and say "no" very clearly and in
a serious tone of voice. If you don't
look and sound serious when you tell them
to stop, they may think that you are
playing hard to get and simply ignore you.
Next time your guy is doing something
that your not comfortable with.....Don't
ask him to stop ....Tell him to stop. If
he continues the behavior, then you need
to leave right away, because that is
completely unacceptable. There I have
said my peace......I wish the best of luck
to you!
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chanee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 124 Location: detroit
Posted: 11-30-05 16:58pm
Hi hun I think ur not pregnant but,this
guy is crazy if he thinks that he can
pressure u like that.It's so unfair to u
as a young lady.If I were u and I was not
ready to go to that lvl which I think u
should totally not not have sex.Ok it's
such a big step and at 14 u should be
having fun not worrying about being
pregnant.The women will help u as much as
we can .But tell this jerk to back off or
kick him in his penis that works lol. But
good luck god bless u and make good
decisions for ur self ok
chanee
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hollie686
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 195 Location: USA
Posted: 11-30-05 18:11pm
leigh10
wrote:
i think (and i'm sure
other's will agree) that it is highly
unlikely that you are pregnant.
Something I am sure of......This guy is a
serious jerk to continue this type of
behavior after you have pushed him away.
I hate to lecture you, and I know it's
none of my business, but I am 23 and I
dated alot before I met my hubby, so I
know how persistant boys/men can be. You
have to be extremely firm with them and
make sure that they know what they are
doing is not ok! Push them away and say
"no" very clearly and in a serious tone of
voice. If you don't look and sound
serious when you tell them to stop, they
may think that you are playing hard to get
and simply ignore you. Next time your
guy is doing something that your not
comfortable with.....Don't ask him to stop
....Tell him to stop. If he continues
the behavior, then you need to leave right
away, because that is completely
unacceptable. There I have said my
peace......I wish the best of luck to
you!
i totally agree with leigh10. If this boy
cannot respect your wishes, then you do
not want to be with him. At this age,
they are only out for themselves. If he
really cared about your feelings, he would
not be pushing you. Be careful. Be very
firm in your decisions. Boys can be very
sneaky about getting what they want.
