I Have a Problem And I'm 16. Posted: 11-28-05 22:26pm
I just turned 16 in september. I have a
loving girlfriend, we've been together
about 5 months. I love her with all my
heart. But last weekend I made a big
mistake. I got out with the wrong crowd
and smoked marijuana. I dont know what to
do. I know I had sex with some girl, I
know her but I really wish I hadnt.
I have no idea what to do, she may be
pregnant. I told my girlfriend and she is
devestated but we love each other too much
to let go. But if this other girl is
pregnant I dont know what i'm going to do.
Life was perfect before this, please give
me some advice or something. :( i'm about
to go crazy. I cant support or take care
of a kid at this age.
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d1rekt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: KENTUCKY
Posted: 11-28-05 23:09pm
Bump, sorry im just really nervous and
depressed
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Re: I Have a Problem And I'm 16. Posted: 11-29-05 13:29pm
d1rekt
wrote:
i just turned 16 in
september. I have a loving girlfriend,
we've been together about 5 months. I
love her with all my heart. But last
weekend I made a big mistake. I got out
with the wrong crowd and smoked marijuana.
I dont know what to do. I know I had
sex with some girl, I know her but I
really wish I hadnt.
I have no idea what to do, she may be
pregnant. I told my girlfriend and she
is devestated but we love each other too
much to let go. But if this other girl
is pregnant I dont know what i'm going to
do. Life was perfect before this, please
give me some advice or something. :( i'm
about to go crazy. I cant support or
take care of a kid at this
age.
let her take a test, and im sorry I have
no comforting words, but it was your fault
and your have to take responsibilties for
your actions. I must admit I am proud of
you for telling your gf, maybe this other
girl doesnt want the baby herself and you
both can look into adoption. But
goodluck, with all of that
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lynn387
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 14
Posted: 12-01-05 19:49pm
I agree that you have to take the blame
for what you did. I am 18 and I use to be
addicted to pot. I just do not understand
how your perception could be bad enough
for you to have sex with another girl if
you loved your girlfriend so much... I
have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years now,
and I am almost 5 months pregnant. But if
he ever told me that he cheated on me, I
wouldn't be able to handle it. I actually
had a dream last night that he had went
and got high with my sister...Lol...What a
coincidence....
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