Is It That He Is Not Attracted Me Anymore If He Masterbates

I don't like the idea of cum in my mouth either but when you give oral to your husband he should be able to tell you when he is about to cum and you can just turn your head or finish with your hand. Also I think that if he says he is masturbating out of boredom, he probably is. If you guys have a good sex life I don't see why he would lie about that. I wouldn't stress about that if I were you. Sometimes guys do it to relax. (that is what I have been told anyways) I think as long as it doesn't interfere with your sex life, then it isn't a problem.

Im sorry but I can not relate to what you are feeling. My boyfriend (we are not even married) masturbates almost everynight while watching pornographic movies along with looking at magezines. (he has both going simultaneously) I beg him for sex or at least just to give him oral & he turns me down so much more than he agree. I beg to give oral??!! I must be crazy. He prefers 2 dimensions I guess. I could take the porn, and the masturbation if only we had a healthy sex life.

So no: it is not weird for a man to masturbate, especially if he is into sex enough to engage in 2 hours worth of foreplay. Some of us are lucky if we get two minutes, twice a month. And we are only in our mid & late-20s!!

I completely agree with you emcsq. Maybe I read her post wrong I was taking it as he masturbates, but they have a completely healthy sex life together. As far as what is going on with you, that is another story entirely. Do you think he might have a porn addiction?

Hey, I am very sorry to hear that. I am also 5 mo pregnant ( with a boy) and my husband and I have been together for 8 yr (married for 4)he does not think my pregnant body is unattractive and for a man to say that to a pregnant woman is disgusting! Pregnant women are sensitive enogh without being told they are unattractive.

I believe the normal family unit is best for a child, mother and father living together and all that. But I do not think you should have to stay with him just because you are pregnant (congrats by the way- due date?)

if you have talked to him and told him how much it bothers you and he doesn't care, then I would take that to mean that he doesn't care about you. When my husband and I first got married, he had a porn collection, nothing he watched all the time but, at the time it made me very uncomfortable. I asked him to get rid of it and because I wasn't doing it to be health forum, it really did bother me, he got rid of it. He has over the years accumulated some more and now it doesn't really bother me because I know it is not a problem for him.

I will tell you that I know someone who is married to someone addicted to porn and she is miserable about it. It has really messed up her self esteem. I don't think you should subject yourself to that. There are men out there who will adore your body when it is carrying their child. That is the kind you should have. If he has some perfect porn star body in his mind as what you have to look like- even after the baby is born your body won't be the same. He needs to love your body because it is yours. I don't mean to tell you to leave, but if he doesn't love you enough to get help for his addiction, there is a serious problem with the way he loves you.

Hi there! Opra had a show on the other day, about porn addiction, I believe it was yesterday, I did not watch that much of it, it really seems like a sad thing, especially being married or being with someone with that problem.
Good luck!