Should I Be So Jealous of This?? Posted: 11-29-05 20:41pm
I've been with my guy for over a year.
Before we got together and were just pals,
he mentioned that he had a slight
preference for asian girls. He likes a
small frame and not in to the buxom look.
I am caucasian/ petite.
Months later he made a joke about "chasing
asian girls".
Now, even though we've been over this a
few times and he's spent a lot of time
reassuring me that he is totally devoted
to me and he loves me, thinks i'm
beautiful etc. And insists that he
doesn't have "a thing" for another type.
I can't seems to stop myself from getting
jealous when we see a pretty asian girl or
some other trigger.
I can't tell if I should be upset or if
i'm being silly???
He sais he doesn't want to talk about it
anymore but it still bothers me because I
feel like he's not being honest and
downplaying what he previously said
(naturally)
please help.
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Oakland_raiders925
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2005 Posts: 33 Location: California
Re: Should I Be So Jealous of This?? Posted: 11-29-05 20:53pm
emilybug
wrote:
i've been with my guy for
over a year.
Before we got together and were just pals,
he mentioned that he had a slight
preference for asian girls. He likes a
small frame and not in to the buxom look.
I am caucasian/ petite.
Months later he made a joke about "chasing
asian girls".
Now, even though we've been over this a
few times and he's spent a lot of time
reassuring me that he is totally devoted
to me and he loves me, thinks i'm
beautiful etc. And insists that he
doesn't have "a thing" for another type.
I can't seems to stop myself from getting
jealous when we see a pretty asian girl or
some other trigger.
I can't tell if I should be upset or if
i'm being silly???
He sais he doesn't want to talk about it
anymore but it still bothers me because I
feel like he's not being honest and
downplaying what he previously said
(naturally)please
help.
yeah yeah.. I understand what your going
through the thing is , is that men always
think you dont listen but women listen
more than what they think .. If he
happens to mention about another girl we
will remember.. And guys seem to always
forget waht they sayed or claim they have
forgotten.. I dont think your being silly
I have this problem also.. You sould
probly talk to him and let him know how it
made you feel when he sayed that I bet he
probly woulnt even remember it.. Lol..
But you have every right to be jelous
because you know exactly what he likes..
Ofcourse your probly going to want to
attack any pretty assian girl now when you
see her but if hes not looking dont say
anything if he looks you get on his ass
because you know who/ what he looking
for!.. I hate when men do that caca..
Lol.. Anyways im sorry justb relesing
some pressure.. .. Ta ta.. Hope
everythings gose right.
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Oakland_raiders925
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2005 Posts: 33 Location: California
Re: Should I Be So Jealous of This?? Posted: 11-29-05 20:56pm
Yeah yeah.. I understand what your going
through the thing is , is that men always
think you dont listen but women listen
more than what they think .. If he
happens to mention about another girl we
will remember.. And guys seem to always
forget waht they sayed or claim they have
forgotten.. I dont think your being
silly I have this problem also.. You
sould probly talk to him and let him know
how it made you feel when he sayed that I
bet he probly woulnt even remember it..
Lol.. But you have every right to be
jelous because you know exactly what he
likes.. Ofcourse your probly going to
want to attack any pretty assian girl now
when you see her but if hes not looking
dont say anything if he looks you get on
his ass because you know who/ what he
looking for!.. I hate when men do that
(((((health question))))).. Lol..
Anyways im sorry justb relesing some
pressure.. .. Ta ta.. Hope
everythings gose right.[/quote] sorry
dont kow why I put health question I was
looking at the scren and saw it so I guys
my brains going wacko.. Lmaop.. Sorry
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Oakland_raiders925
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2005 Posts: 33 Location: California
Posted: 11-29-05 20:56pm
Damn im just messing all my words
up..Lol.. Sorry!!!!! Again..
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czarg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: Lagos-Nigeria
Asian Thots. Posted: 01-13-06 19:10pm
Darl,
guys always have billions of ladies they
admire and wish they had but it is just
wishful thinking. Relax! Play yr cards
well to be sure you get the attention you
need, give him equal attention if not
more. Don't worry abt the asian thots.
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babychellee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2006 Posts: 6
Posted: 03-04-06 22:56pm
Dont worry, if hes been with you and
dedicated to you for an entire year, u hav
no reason to be jealous =) if he really
really wanted to have an asian girl..
Then why did he go for u? Be proud that
he picked u over all of the asian girls he
couldve had. Dont worry, guys drool over
anything that passes by them.. Its a
tradition =) juss like they drool over
female celebrities. He may have a
preference of a "look" but u have the
"heart".
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babychellee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2006 Posts: 6
Posted: 03-04-06 22:57pm
..& guess what?! Im asian. Haha and
im ugly :shock:
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haliparot
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Lol My Bf Is Like That to Posted: 03-22-06 18:37pm
Hello girl...I'm asian...And my bf has
this "thing" for asians girls too...Good
thing i'm asian...Anyways I do feel for
you..Even if i'm asian...My bf always
hangs on the wall different girls
(semi-porn) some are asian some are
not...Before it really bothered me..But
now I really don't care...It is normal to
feel jealous but I think your bf really
loves you and if he had a chance to choose
between an asian girl or you he will still
choose you...That's why he is still w/ you
and your still his gf..Just relax
honey...Guys tend to think that you are
insecure when you get jealous of other
girls...Just play it..
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blast
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 May 2006 Posts: 12
Posted: 05-25-06 14:44pm
No you should not be jelous of you other
females because if you are with a guy that
is looking at another girl but its good
because he with you and not her and I
think that you should be able to look at
other guys
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beautiful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 146 Location: stockton
Posted: 05-26-06 12:05pm
Worry because what makes you think that
he aint gonna do anythin else if he
already lookin
