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herre7
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I Was Told I Was Having a Miscarraige....but
Posted: 11-30-05 00:43am
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Last month I was told I was 1 month
pregnant but I began to bleed with brown
discharge..And have mild cramps. So dr
gave me 2 ultrsounds...And saw no sign of
a baby. I was told I needed blood work
done..So I did it. Blood work came back
possitive...But with very low hcg level I
was told I needed 1 more blood test to see
if my hcg level doubled like its supposed
to. Well I got the results 4 days later
because I waited 4 days to take the blood
test. And the level of hcg count...Was
more than half of the low number it
already was. I was told I was having a
miscarraige. Well over the next few days
I bleed alot...Had severe cramping, and
could barely breath....So I figured my
natural miscarriage had taken place...Well
all my pregnancy symptoms went a
way...Well that was 2 weeks ago..And
now... I have havent had sex or
anything...And my symptons are
returning...Well my breast
sensetivity..And some neausia has
returned...Im soooo confused...I took 2
clear blue pregnancy test 2 days
apart..And both came back negative...So I
dont know whats going on...Help please...
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not perfect
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Posted: 11-30-05 02:44am
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I know usually with miscarriages you have
to get "cleaned out". Did you ever have
that done? I don't know how far along a
woman would have had to be when it comes
to getting cleaned out.
It all could be your body returning to
"normal". I'd get into the doc to make
sure.
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Mommie Dearest
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Posted: 11-30-05 07:22am
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'not perfect' is very right. I had 3
miscarriages, the last one only last month
and with each one, I had to have a d &
c done to make sure that all of the
baby/tissue was out of my body otheriwse
it can caus a pretty bad infection.
Didn't your Dr. Do any of that for you?
That wud seem pretty odd to me if he
didn't.
Maybe you need to go back to him and ask a
question and find out why.
My breast tingled and hurt even after the
baby was gone. I guess your breast are
the first things that usually react to
pregnancy first, getting ready to make the
mikl, so I guess it takes them a while to
get back to what they were and you also
have to remember that as far as your body
is concerned, you had a baby, it is not
aware of the fact that your baby has died,
so technically your breast cud just be
responding to that, waiitng for the baby
to come and nurse.
I had alot of nausea too after, about a
week or two after I lost my last baby, and
I thot that I was pregnant again too {lol}
hardly. But my body felt very much like
it was.
Maybe it's just you rbody getting back to
pre-pregnancy.
But you really need to make sure that you
have a gud clean out though, becuz any
tissue left back in there cud caus some
serious problems.
Hang in there, and let us know.
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kimba036
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Posted: 11-30-05 07:44am
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I also just had a miscarriage... It's
been 5 days now since it started... My
blood test saturday showed a level of
11,000. Monday it was 1,000 and I have
to go back friday. My ob told me to come
in 2 to 3 weeks for a follow up.
Apparently I don't need a d&c. First
pregnancy, first miscarriage. 36 years
old. I am still bloated up like a
balloon and bleeding heavily. How long
does it take for your body to go back to
normal? The dr says I can't go to the
gym for at least 1 to 2 weeks after
bleeding stops.... Also, when can you
start trying again?
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herre7
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Thanks For the Responses
Posted: 11-30-05 09:22am
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My dr said that I could easily naturally
miscarry since I was only about a month to
a moth and a half pregnant....She didnt
think d n c would be nessasary....But now
im a little concerned because I work up
today with bad cramping....I used to get
bad cramps with my period....So maybe
thats whats going on...I hope....Because
im pretty worried....
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herre7
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Hey
Posted: 11-30-05 16:57pm
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Oh just to let ya know....My hcg number
was a 98 at 1 month...Which is pretty
low....I guess ...Than 3 days later... It
went down to a 23.....So I dunno...
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hollie686
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Posted: 11-30-05 17:32pm
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I can take a little while for your body to
get back to normal after a miscarriage.
If dr doesn't do a d&c - don't be
alarmed. Your body has natural ways to
take care of itself. Sometimes fragments
can be left behind & if that would
happen, then a d&c would probably be
done. I had a miscarriage this past may
(i was 7 weeks) I had alot of ongoing
cramping & bleeding. Finally one day
I noticed that I had made it to 3pm
without needing a nap. At that time I
knew it was over. Dr's recommend waiting
@ least 2-3 cycles before trying again.
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kimba036
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Level...
Posted: 11-30-05 18:09pm
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Hi.... The dr told me they're looking
for the number zero... If your at 28 then
your almost done I would think. My
bleeding and cramping has lightened
considerably. I'm sure by friday i'll be
close to zero. I would rather go through
this now than later.... Wasn't meant to
be. Hopefully better luck next time.
I'm not god... Hopefully it's in his plan
for me to have a child... Time will
tell. Hope you feel better soon!
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herre7
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Thanks For the Responses
Posted: 11-30-05 19:40pm
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Well the time I was told my hcg was about
a 28 was 2 weeks ago...So shouldnt I have
gone down to 0? I mean ive felt fine
until the past few days...Than today ive
had cramping....I called the Dr..And they
didnt really tell me anything...They said
to wait it out.... :( and I was think
that they neausia and tiredness could be
comeing from the flu I just got
over....But has this ever happened to
anyone...I guess I spend alot of time on
here posting because im only 18 and I
wasnt tryin to concieve...I was in an
abusive relationship and I dont wanna say
I was raped....But I didnt have another
choice...This is the 2 time I have ever
had sex...And I have no one to talk about
it with... I told my ex...But he said
that this is what I deserved since I chose
to break up with him....So I have no
support..And no help...
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kimba036
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Bad Situation
Posted: 11-30-05 22:25pm
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I would stay away from him.. Don't call
him. That doesn't sound like a healthy
environment to raise a child. Any man
puts his hands on you against your will is
unacceptable. If your going to be
sexually active maybe you could look into
birth control? Having a child is a huge
responsibility. I was raised by 2 loving
parents who worked very hard to support my
brother and i. I am grateful for the
upbringing that I had... Hopefully
someday I will be able to raise a child of
my own with the same strong values and
morals my parents instilled with me. I
wish you luck and I hope you make the
right decision. As far as the
cramping... I'm sure it's going to take
our bodies a few weeks to get back to
normal. Ask the nurse what you have to
expect. Good luck... Best wishes.
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Mommie Dearest
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Posted: 12-01-05 18:16pm
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| kimba036
wrote: | | i also just had a
miscarriage... It's been 5 days now
since it started... My blood test
saturday showed a level of 11,000.
Monday it was 1,000 and I have to go back
friday. My ob told me to come in 2 to 3
weeks for a follow up. Apparently I
don't need a d&c. First pregnancy,
first miscarriage. 36 years old. I
am still bloated up like a balloon and
bleeding heavily. How long does it take
for your body to go back to normal? The
dr says I can't go to the gym for at least
1 to 2 weeks after bleeding stops....
Also, when can you start trying
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well, I bled for like two weeks after I
had my miscarriages and my Dr. Told me
that I had to wait for my first period
after my miscarriage to go to the gym, so
I myself am still waiting as I lost my
baby in october and my period hasn't come
back as yet. My bleeding was pretty heavy
for the first 3 to five days and then it
just sorta tapered off into this brownish
discharge that become very annoying becuz
you just want it to stop!!!
I think that every woman's body just
reacts differently to stuff.
But it will take your body a while to get
back to normal, with me I wanted to rush
it, just so that I wudn't have any
reminders from my body that I was ever
pregnant. But after 3 miscarriages, I
have learn to adjust to alot and I still
look big, myself, but just try to eat
properly and take things from there until
you can get back to the gym okay>
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herre7
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Thanks For the Responses
Posted: 12-01-05 23:37pm
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Thanks for the replying youve all
done....To all the women who have had
miscarraige...My heart and prayers are all
there..E.Ven tho I didnt want a baby...Im
still upset about losing it....So when you
wer about 2 weekks past the bleeding..Did
any of you...Have sore breast and
naeusia?
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Mommie Dearest
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Re: Thanks For the Responses
Posted: 12-02-05 09:25am
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| herre7
wrote: | | thanks for the replying
youve all done....To all the women who
have had miscarraige...My heart and
prayers are all there..E.Ven tho I didnt
want a baby...Im still upset about losing
it....So when you wer about 2 weekks past
the bleeding..Did any of you...Have sore
breast and
naeusia? |
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i have to admit that only with my last
miscarriage in october this year did I
still have the sore breast and the naseua.
But I put that down to the fact that I
had been so far a long and so my body was
just adjusting to it's pre-pregnancy
state. I suppose that yours will too soon
enuff. It mite just taje some time, but
it will get there.
My biggest mistake was trying to rush it
becuz that only made it worse, and having
a strong support group of family and
friends helped me along the way and before
I knew it it was all over, and my body was
practically back to normal, whatever that
is after you've either had a baby or a
miscarriage :cry:
the only thing is that I have always had
very small breast and now I have gone up a
cup size with no sign in site of them
going back to a 34b. Oh well, I guess my
fiance isn't complaining so why shud I
:wink:
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Corry Sorrell
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Number Two
Posted: 10-17-06 20:37pm
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 I am 22 and
already a mother of a 15 month old boy.
But I just found out that I have just had
my second miscarriage. I lost the 1st one
in jan. I am soooo upset I can hardly
pull myself out of bed. The 1st time I
had a d/c but this time they let me go
through it. Which is alot harder. I just
dont know when the pain will stop mentally
and physically. I also have found out
that I have a cyst on my cervix. So there
is another slap in the face. With my
first miscarriage I wrote in a journal
everyday until I felt a little better and
the hospital gave me a little fleece
blanket as a memory of the baby. But this
time the journal idea is not workin all I
can write is stuff like god I am so sad.
And then I am exhausted. Any suggestions
to help?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-17-06 22:04pm
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Wow, im so sorry for your loss. For both
your first and second pregnancies. I hope
you pull through!!!
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meggan
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Im So Sorry to Hear
Posted: 10-17-06 23:34pm
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Im really sorry to hear about your loss.
Back in april I lost my first baby! I was
10 weeks but the baby showed 6 weeks.
Unfortunately I had major cramping before
for a week and after for a week. Two
weeks of bleeding and slight cramping
occured after the miscarriage.. I was
told its normal. If you continue to go
through a pad every 1 for 10 days go have
a doctor take a look.. You may need to be
completely cleaned out. D n c. Most
likely your body will take care of it! Im
really sorry that you are going through
this.. Its going to be a lot but I hope
the best for your furture
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