Wow,,,just pray that your not pg and if you are then dont abort..Adopt the baby out

Im not sure the other poster got what you said. You are pregnant you just dont know which one is the father right? First deal with you and your baby. Go see a doctor and find out how far you are and the estimated conception date. Use that and which ones were protected sex and which ones werent add in which ones actually ejaculated inside you and hope to narrow it down. If this doesnt help they do paternatity test without going on nation tv. But then again do you really need to know which one is the dad? Are you considerng keeping the baby? Because adoptive parents wont care which one is the father. And if you are keeping the baby there are plenty of ways to do this yourself you dont need a boys help.

Damn girl....Ufff......I think u need to go to maury and take dem niggas dere....

Hey grl well listing up..........If all dat happen dan dat best thing 2 do is check ny a blood test if u is have the cell removed.......Becuz it wont be fair 2 u so young as well 4 the baby n its future wit a single mom ur age.......Well good luck....................

To someonewhocares:
whats wrong with single moms? I am lucky to have a supportive husband but there are plenty of girls out there whos bf or babys daddy or whatever dont help and they are fully capable and good mothers. In fact two of my friends are teen mothers and have no support from the fathers of there children but they are getting along just fine without them. Women are strong we can grow another life inside us! No one needs a man to help them raise their babies

I agree with macysmomma

I have 4 friends who are single moms from ages 16-23 so it really depends one of the cases the father walked out on the baby when she was 4 months sad sad....................


All of my friends are doing really well, they have their days but thats why we all keep in contact were all a form of support for the other, dont listen to anyone else hun I guess until your a single mom you will never understand what it is truly like. Just understand that if your child wants to know who the dad is when she gets older then you have a problem if you dont get some sort of testing done even if the dad is an @$$ at least ur daughter will know that you did your best...


Jess

Does that mean they are on welfare cause if you call that doing realy good no they are not cause we all have to pay for that if someone teen is doing great on welfare they dont have very high standards

One of buddy was on welfare till she got daycare as there are long waiting list so how do you work without daycare??? Well she a dental hygenist can get work anywhere but no one to watch her kid are you telling me that you would rather have moms neglect their children???

Im a working mom and I have my 16 mths old on three incredibly waiting list till she gets one she has been jumping from family members and neighbors im on mat leave now.........

My friend who was collecting has a college degree a home and no one here to help her so in the end she doing pretty incredibly good

I dont mind my money going to welfare for ppl like her she deserved it its ppl who abuse the system so dont judge and the rest arent on welfare as they have a significant other but she left her when she found out he did crack...............Which makes her a really good mom for putting her childs needs first

jess

Well am sayin she only 15 come on who knows if she have a job if she have parents whom will help her u feel me? She will finish 2 go 2 school just because she will have a baby who no one will sopposrt? I mean not everyone have the same luck u feel me? And these are my opinions because I know how hard it is am sayin my sister had her 1st baby at age 18 n she left him with my mother when he was only 6 months old I mean she is now 22 n she still not ready 2 be a mother.....This baby have no mom or dad I woundt like any oda baby 2 go trew this.....

To the welfare question no both of them have jobs there baby goes to daycare

To someone who cares

really depends on the person i'm 21 and got prego at 19 once in a blue moon I ask my mom to watch my daughter cause I need a break but that is usually a few hours.......

Its sad when someone doesnt take responsibility for their child, im going on 22 in a few days but im expecting #2 feb 2 but I will never ditch my kids..........

I still go out and party with friends while someone watches my daughter and I enjoy just getting that once a month and sometimes I was lucky and got twice a month.........Everyone is different I just want you guys to know that things either go good or bad so really depends on the person and if they understand what is going to happen after...

Good luck to you young moms!!!
Jess