Im 14 And Might Be Pregnant; Please Help!!!! Posted: 12-03-05 08:19am
Hi, im 14 and I think I might be pregnant.
My boyfriend and I , who is 15, had
protected sex twice and unprotected sex
once in the last week. When we had sex
unprotected, he used the pull out method.
Eventhough im not due for my period yet, I
want to be sure im not pregnant or if I
am, to stop it.
I absolutly cannot tell my parents and
want to stop my pregnancy, if I am, as
secretly as possible. Is there any pills
I can take without a parent or doctors
consent? If I am pregnant can I have an
abortion without anyone knowing? What are
the chances of getting pregnant
unprotected?
If anyone can help please! Im really
really scared.
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georgia1980
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 102 Location: UK
Posted: 12-03-05 10:15am
You can buy an emergency contraception
pill over the counter in a chemist....They
are effective within 72 hours of
unprotected sex (i think).
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dlisiouss
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2004 Posts: 107 Location: PA
Posted: 12-03-05 15:32pm
I just want to say that u are 14 and I
know u don't want to hear this but u are
still really young!!!!! Don't ruin ur
life over unpretected sex! I am 18 and I
just found out I have hpv... At 16 I was
preg with my first child and lost it at 3
1/2 months... I almost died. I got
pregnant from losing my virginity to my
first love and now I realize it was not
worth it. If u can not use condoms or
protect urself in some way than u are not
ready for sex... The responsabilities of
sex are far too intense for someone ur
age. You may think you are an adult and
all that good stuff but you've got a long,
(and if u play ur cards right) fun life a
head of u. Don't blow it and if your not
preg this should be a wake up call!!!
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daretoswim7709
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2005 Posts: 83 Location: NY
14???? Posted: 12-03-05 16:47pm
14 huh? Like the person above me said
this should be a wakeup call. Someone
your age shouldnt even be thinking about
having sex. I know I wasnt when I was 14.
There are emerceny contraceptive pills
that you can get at a planned parenthood
but id be more worried about killing my
child then not being pregnant, but that's
just me. I realize your 14 and that's
young but if you cant get ahold of the
pill and you get an abortion that's
horrible. I mean you have to realize once
you begin having sex regularly you have to
take the pleasure with the responsiblity.
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plavishka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-03-05 20:29pm
I know im young and I really do regret all
of this. Thanks for ur help
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dlisiouss
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2004 Posts: 107 Location: PA
Posted: 12-03-05 23:46pm
I wasn't trying to give you a lecture but
I do hope that every thing works out for
the best... I know when I was pregnant at
16 it was a huge wake up call... And it
broke my heart when I lost my baby, as
well. I don't care how old u are, if u
become preg and u kno that there is a baby
that u and the person u love made, u get
attatched and when u lose that child,
nothing can take that pain and loss
away... And b/c u are so young u prob
will have to get an abortion and it will
break ur heart! That was a huge life
lesson I learned through all the pain and
loss and I hope u don't have to feel the
same way. Keep me updated!
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roxiegirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Ohio
Posted: 12-04-05 21:02pm
I know you are scared, my neice is going
to have her baby anyday, she fortunately
found out she was pregnant her senior
year, but still scared.
Have u considered adoption at all?
There are so many that would love to have
a child and cannot. U are so young and
have so much to enjoy. If u are
interested in adoption, I know a couple
that would love to have a child. Take
care and good luck.
