I don't really know what to tell you except you should let him know how you feel. All this stress can't be good for the baby...And that should be your main concern..
Good luck with everything, sugar

Thxs alot he's in here trying to make up but I don't know if that's going to work so easy for i'm hurt and sad and stressed my stomach is hurting i'm smoking more cigarettes and I think my baby might die i'm scared but thxs for ur kinds words good luck and god bless u
chanee

If you have a safe place you can go to, you need to go. Leave your husband at home and under no conditions, tell him where you are going.

When you feel like you have recovered and things are ok, call him from either a cell phone or a pay phone that is in a neutral place so he cannot find you and try to hurt you.

You really need to get to a stress free or at least a lower stress place so that you can totally quit smoking. Right now you need to be concerned with your health first and foremost and a very close second is the baby's health.

Your husband needs to be aware that his actions can lead him to a very long stay in the gray-bar motel, if something happens to either you or the baby or both and the fellas in the gray-bar don't like men that hurt women and children.

Good luck,
-brian

I understand i'm the same way. You need to escape the stress! Its very important for u and your baby! And u will be very happy if u carry ur child full term! It will be well worth it. Throwing him out might be stress in itself! Good luck!!!

Thank you all for all the advice and i'm taking it he doesn't uderstand he said he was just mad from a fight yesterday.But still I almost went to the er I thought I was having a miscarriage all the pain I felt was crazy but my mom clamed me down and I feel ok now and I told him we need to have a long talk if we are going to be together if not i'm out and I will survive and take care of my children at 22yrsold on my one without the help of a man..Ha ha how hard could it be ,right .Buts thxs all and god bless u
chanee

Please do not ever put up with a man's abuse, pregnant or not and when you are pregnant your hormones are raging. Kids are smarter then what you think, they can tell when mommy and daddy aren't getting along, it has a big effect on them and sometimes it can stay with them as they get older and blame themselves and it causes a lot of problems for them, I cannot tellyou to leave him but I hope you can have a sit down civil conversation and decide what is best for you and your kids because now adays there is a lot of places for you and the kids to go and sometimes you just need a little breather.
Good luck on whatever you decide to do!

Thxs u I will
god bless you

Hang in there sweetie. It will all be okay. Your baby will be okay--but stress does make the body more painful--even when nothing is wrong. Know what I mean. Try not to take his stuff too hard. I know that is easier to say than do. Ask .God to give you "peace of mind"--ask .Him not to allow you to be affected by his actions, like most times, for this is a delicate time for you.



god bless you--i know .God has and will bless your whole life.

Luv ya

joanna

Well you can ask for advice but chances are you will not listin. You already know what is the best thing to do, however you said yourself you are use to him and have been with him for a while. Instead of doing what is best for you and your children, you ask for guidence, when you in your heart know what you should do. If you were going to do it you would not be asking ou would already be gone. I am not trying ot be mean, but I see this all to often, you know that you are too good for him, but you dont have what it takes to walk away. You feel like you need him, if not for you for the children. If my husband ever hurt my or my child ( and he is hurting your cildren by what he is doing to you) I would leave him so fast he would not know what hit him. But my husband loves and respects me, we may argue but he would never upset me while I am pregnant with his child. Just think you lil boy sees him doing this stuff and he will grow up and be the same way to the woman he is with, dont you want to teach him better than that? I know when my son gets here, I never want him to hurt woman, and if his daddy ever lost his damn mind and thought he could hit me, especially in frount of cameron, he would have another thing coming.

Day by day the lord takes care of the innocent, and they will receive a reward that lasts forever.

Psalm 37:18 nlt

Amen thxs joanna ppl don't understand he's never hit me but life is hard and he does his best I will leave him but when i'm ready I just need advice at the time ppl don't judge unless ye want to be judged not u joanna the lady who responded before you
thxs everyone god bless you all
chanee

The best thing to do is sit him down & have a serious conversation with him. Tell him how you feel, how he makes you feel when you guys fight. Let him know that if this behavior continues, you will not stand for it. I know i've had to threaten my husband a time or two:) . I hope you are able to work out your issues with him. Keep us posted on how things go. Everything will work out in the end:)

Hi chanee,

how are you doing? I havent seen you on here much lately. They always run the good ones off, that is why they mess with me so bad--but I will not go away. I am on a mission now. Hows that pregnancy doing?

Did you have happy new years, we forgot it was even happening until 25 minutes before the ball dropped.

God bless you and your baby:

always

I asked god for a baby, he gave me a miscarriage.

So I wont be asking god again for nuffin.

But anyways I wish u the best of luck chanee in whatever u decide to do and best of luck in future :)

You need to leave him...You are better than that ...And you need to take care of you and your children...You can do it ...It might be hard...But not as hard as it will be to see your baby's dad...Do damage to your children in the long run....I think there are many men out there that would love to be with you...Seriously ..You need to put some thought into it and be strong and show him whose boss :wink:

i am sorry for your lost ta-ra , however have you taken the time to think that maybe god forsaw that something was wrong with that child something that would disable it for life. Someting he di not thin kyou would be able to handle. Everything happens for a reason, I know you hate to hear that, and I know a miscarrige is hard my mom had one and still has not recovered,that was 6 years go. But this is how she thinks of it, there may have been somthing really wrong, the child may not have been developing right, and at least she knows that her child is in haven above. I am no one to preach to you. I just do not want you to give up hope and faith in god. God never puts anything on someone that he dont think that they can handle. I lost a friend over a year ago and I had got pretty upset with god, but I am slowly understanding that everything happens for a reason. All you can do is live life to the fullest and enjoy what we have of it. I am positive that when the good lord feels you are ready he will bless you with the perfect little boy or girl. Like I said my mom had a miscarrige 6 years ago and guess what she is pregnant again. I will pray for you if thats ok, just please do not turn away from god, please!