Joined: 03 Dec 2005 Posts: 10 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALi
I Dont Feel Sex... Posted: 12-03-05 22:53pm
Im 20.. I barley have any periods... I
mean.. Maybe once every year... And I
kno 4 a fact that im not pregnant...
Anyways... I dont feel sex... I mean ive
never had an orgasam or came close 2 1
when the guy is in me... Its a different
story when im recievin oral or its durin
foreplay and im gettin straight
stimulation 2 my clit but other then
that... I dont feel it!! And im also not
turned on by the usual things such as
makin out... :cry: plz every1.. Help
me..!! Tell me whats wrong wit me...
Lol!!!
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deg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2005 Posts: 12
Posted: 12-04-05 10:22am
I would go to the obgyn, because not
having your period very often is not
normal. It could be a hormone inbalance,
which would also impact your libido. The
doc might put you on birth control to even
out your hormones so you are having
periods. This also might help you feel
more interested in sex, turned on when
making out, etc.
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JanetBee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Posts: 332
Posted: 12-04-05 16:25pm
Okay, don't take this the wrong way...But
maybe you just don't get turned on by men?
If you don't like the kissing so much,
and don't get much out of penetrative sex,
there is nothing wrong with that, and so
you should even do it if you aren't
interested. You don't owe it to a guy in
any way. Is this your boyfriend that you
are with? Do you love the guy and find
him attractive? I only say, because not
everyone likes having sex with men!
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nightangel73
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Posted: 12-05-05 21:18pm
I agree with the that you should go to the
gyn to check out for hormonal imbalances
as per your lacking of periods. Regarding
the penetrative sex well there is many
many women who cann't achieve an orgasm
via penetration so you are certainly not
alone. It is totally normal, that's just
your nature so don't worry about it.
Hopefully someone will post here how they
managed how they deal with tthis
particular situation.