Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 43 Location: laughlin nv
Please Help Me!! Posted: 12-03-05 23:17pm
I am in need of some help!!! Im 15 almost
16.
Im still not sure if I am pregnant or not
but I am most likely.
Im taking a pregnancy test in 3days. But
I need help on some stuff. My mother
hates my boyfriend and she wont let us be
together. If she found out I am going to
be pregnant, she will send me away and
make me get an abortion(most likely). I
dont want to get an abortion, I want to
have this kid if I am pregnant. I dont
know what to do about me getting out of my
house. I cant live here much longer. I
need to get out, and im not going to run
away. I just need some advice on how or
what to do for me to get out of my house.
This is the only way I can be with my
boyfriend also.
Thanks!
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Happiness03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Posted: 12-04-05 12:14pm
I know it is going to be hard, but either
way, I think you should talk to your mom.
Do you know why she hates your boyfriend?
If not, this would be a good opportunity
to let her know why you care for him so
much. At first she will be disappointed,
angry, and upset when you tell her you
are/think you are pregnant, but think
about how much worse it will be when she
finds out you were hiding it from her. I
wish you the best of luck, but I think
communication is the best thing here!
Keep us posted! If you ever need to talk,
you can send me a pm. In the mean time
hang in there!
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Jennie25
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Ontario
Posted: 12-04-05 14:10pm
If your mom says you have to get an
abortion, just rebel..As bad as it sounds,
you still have to stick up for what you
believe in. Even if that means not
listening to mommy dearest. Does your bf
know?
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 12-07-05 18:04pm
I dont know what the law is where you are
(you can look online) but in fl if you are
16 and get a note from your doctor stating
you are pregnant you can get married
without moms consent. Also even if your
mother drags you to the clinic kicking and
screaming they ask you have you been
forced to come here? And they wont do the
procedure unless you have come on your own
feel will and it is your decision
