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wargosmama

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Im Bi And I Dont Know How to Tell My Boyfriend...
Posted: 12-03-05 23:50pm

I just realized something that im bisexual and im not exactly sure how to tell my boyfriend. I like girls and guys. So can anyone help!!

And is masturbating wrong? Cuz I dont think it is but then again alot of people say its wrong.
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Posted: 12-04-05 02:26am

Whatever you do, it's best to be completely honest with him.
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Re: Im Bi And I Dont Know How to Tell My Boyfriend...
Posted: 12-17-05 22:13pm

wargosmama wrote:
i just realized something that im bisexual and im not exactly sure how to tell my boyfriend. I like girls and guys. So can anyone help!!


And is masturbating wrong? Cuz I dont think it is but then again alot of people say its wrong.
if your boyfriend loves you enough he will understand that youre bisexual if he flips out and starts yelling and throwing a fit like a 2yr old then he aint worth haveing sit down with him over coffee dinner and jusst come out and tell him :oops: :x :? 8) :lol:
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Posted: 03-02-06 12:44pm

I wouldnt worry, as most mens dream is 2 girls he will probably be thrilled, mine was
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Posted: 05-09-06 15:15pm

Ok im in the same situation but my boyfriend told me he is bi... And im giving him some space to sort out his head and im ok with it kinda of. He said he wants to spend his life with me and loves me completely and doesnt want to be with men.... But im askin u can u be with just ur boyfriend if your bi. Will he fully satisfy you. Will you be faithful and how do you know you wont change your mind in years to come and become a full lesbian. Im so scared of losing him.
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Posted: 05-09-06 15:44pm

Lol I doubt you will lose him. Most men like the idea of 2 chicks.. He might wanna set up a date :lol:
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Re: Im Bi And I Dont Know How to Tell My Boyfriend...
Posted: 05-09-06 15:45pm

wargosmama wrote:
i just realized something that im bisexual and im not exactly sure how to tell my boyfriend. I like girls and guys. So can anyone help!!


And is masturbating wrong? Cuz I dont think it is but then again alot of people say its wrong.


.H.E.L.L .N.O masturbating is not wrong!! It actually is good for you!!! :p
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Posted: 06-17-08 14:39pm

HAPPYCHICK wrote:
Ok im in the same situation but my boyfriend told me he is bi... And im giving him some space to sort out his head and im ok with it kinda of. He said he wants to spend his life with me and loves me completely and doesnt want to be with men.... But im askin u can u be with just ur boyfriend if your bi. Will he fully satisfy you. Will you be faithful and how do you know you wont change your mind in years to come and become a full lesbian. Im so scared of losing him.



How does your boyfriend know that you won't change your mind in a few years and decide to leave him for some other guy? It's the same thing. You choose the person you spend the rest of your life with based on the relationship you build with them and the connection you have with them. Being bi just means that you have more possibilities of people to build relationships with...guys and girls. If your boyfriend loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, believe him....him leaving you for a guy has the same possibility of leaving you for a girl and if love is involved, which it sounds like it is Smile then it seems like you have nothing to worry about!
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Posted: 06-24-08 21:40pm

If he is insecure, there may be some complications, because I guess he may see that his competition/possibilities of losing you, just doubled in population percentage? If he is confident in your relationship with him, then yes, as above posters said, he probably won't have any reasons to complain about the idea of a bi girlfriend.

It's best to be honest and let him know what's on your mind, rather then keeping it in the dark and doing something that could surprise and break him.
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