Guys I need ur help....Is it my fault!?
I think I have a problem. Me and my
boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs,
and now i'm just getting fed up with our
sex life. I can't come!
We got into a fight last night about it,
and he told me that it was my fault, that
I wasn't doing something right?
So who'd at fault here. I do everything I
can to try to come, but I just get tired
and pissed off. I mean he comes fine all
the time, and just leaves me there...
Please help!
Kelly
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 12-06-05 15:46pm
Wait, do you mean he can't come?
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KYkelly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 17 Location: PA
Posted: 12-06-05 20:31pm
No, I meant me. He comes all the
time...Its me that cant come.
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Uncovered
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Canada
Posted: 12-06-05 21:06pm
kykelly
wrote:
no, I meant me. He comes
all the time...Its me that cant
come.
and by that you don't meen ejacuation, you
meen and orgasm. Often sex can become
dull after long periods of time, it is
best to try something new and exiting.
Possibly different possitions, locations
and fetishes. Such as filming yourselves
having sex, but I wouldn't reccomend this
if you a will to get in trouble for it.
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 12-07-05 16:26pm
Uncovered offered some good advice!
600th post!
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 12-07-05 16:48pm
Well it nothing un common dear, most women
do not orgasm regularly if ever during
sex. Now if your able to orgasm on your
own (masterbating) then you know what
areas you need to be touched in to make
you tick. Well these are the areas and
things you need to tell your bf, to do
this or that, hes not going to know what
you like unless you tell him, and heck if
he comes and your not finished just have
him stay there with you and play with you,
or maybe you do it 'yourself'. At least
youll be able to release your sexual
tension and not just be totally horny then
let down but achieving no stimulation.
But honestly for most women its seldom
when sex alone can make a women orgasm,
most of the attention is always needed to
the clitoris for an orgasm. Best of luck,
dont be mad with your bf, try to work it
out in a way to please you at least
sometimes, after all you deserve it for
all the times you've pleased him : )
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