Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 11 Location: united kingdom
I Think I'm Pregga's!! Posted: 12-16-03 17:59pm
Hiya evry1!! I need sum advice becoz I
think i'm pregga's
i'v been reading all of the other advice u
have given young teen's and I think you's
are all sound.
We'll i'll introduce myself 2 u .
My name is danielle,i'm 16 and I live in
the u.K!!
About 3 months ago I had unprotected sex,
then I had my period but it woz 2 weeks
l8(its never l since then I have
had 2 more periods but they havnt been on
time, & when i'm havin them they are
makin me feel very dizzy n I feel as tho
i'm going 2 black out. I have also had a
sharp pain in the side of my stomache next
2 hip. My stomache has gotton a bit
bigger & I have noticed my breasts
gettin bigger @ had very sore nipples.
During those 3 months I have had
unprotected sex again 3 times & 2 ov
those times he came up me.
The last time I had unprotected sex was
almost 2 weeks ago, my next period is
meant 2 be due on the 2nd dec. Do u think
I should take a pregnancy test?? & if
so, when do u think I shud take it??
I will be very grateful 2 any1 who has any
answers
loads ov
luv
&
best wishes 2
evry1
~*danielle*~
xxxxxxx
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Sara1023
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Joined: 06 Nov 2003 Posts: 23 Location: orange county, CA
Posted: 12-16-03 18:02pm
You should probably take a home pregnancy
test. I would try ept. Good luck!
Sara
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~*danielle*~
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Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 11 Location: united kingdom
Posted: 12-16-03 18:06pm
Thanx 4 ur reply sara
i am definately going 2 buy a test
luv ~*danielle*~
xxx
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 12-16-03 18:26pm
Hey danielle,i think u r preggers! U seem
like u'd b happy! Take a test & let
us know!
Liz (from birmingham,england) x
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-16-03 18:29pm
Yup, like liz said, a test would be best!
Lol
you could have been spotting or your
periods might have just been late. I know
im always late!
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~*danielle*~
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Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 11 Location: united kingdom
Posted: 12-16-03 18:31pm
Hiya liz
thanx 4 the reply
i wud definately b happy if I was
pregnant
its nice 2 see sum1 else from the u.K on
here aswell
so r u pregnant aswell then??
Speak 2 ya l8a pet
all my luv
~*danielle*~
xxxxxxxxxx
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Darling
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 12-16-03 20:42pm
Are you hoping to get pregnant danielle?
Or did you have unprotected sex by
accident? Either way like the others said
you could be pregnant just go buy a test
and let us know how it goes
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-16-03 22:06pm
If you are pregnant and are happy about it
then congratulations. However, if you
are not, I suggest you use protection at
least for the next couple of years.
Babies are a blessing, but you are only 16
and you have your whole life ahead of you.
You have lots of time to have babies.
So, if you are not pregnant already,
please at least wait until you are a
little older.
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~*danielle*~
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Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 11 Location: united kingdom
Posted: 12-17-03 08:42am
Thanx 2 evry1 who replied
i am not tryin 2 get pregnant but if I was
I wud definateley keep it, I know I am 2
young but I dont believe in abortions
i didnt have unprotected sex by accident
because it's happened more than once,but
it's always been when I have had 2 much 2
drink,however I wudn't think ov it as a
mistake if I did find out I am
pregnant,because if I had a baby it wud b
much loved
if there's any1 who wants 2 talk about
anything u can add me 2 msn as I am
always wanting sum1 2 talk 2
luv
~*danielle*~
xxxx
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minerwater
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Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Canada
Posted: 12-17-03 09:01am
Maybe it's time to consider birthcontrol
pills, patch, depo shots or something of
the sort. Obviously condoms are not
working for you and being drunk is not a
good excuse.
Sorry - but this is really irresponsible!
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expectingjoshua
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Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 30 Location: Canada
Posted: 12-17-03 10:36am
I agree with minerwater....Being drunk is
defintely not an excuse and altho you say
you would love the baby and keep it, it is
a lot easier said than done. I have been
there danielle, and it's no game to have a
baby at 16. Talk to a doctor about what
options are best suited for you. (that is
if you aren't pg already).
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~*danielle*~
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Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 11 Location: united kingdom
Posted: 12-17-03 13:53pm
Minerwater and expectingjoshua
i understand wot the both of u are saying
and appreciate it
i know being drunk isnt a good excuse for
my irresponsable behaviour.
But if when I take a test I find out i'm
not pregnant I will definateley b takin
sum kind of birth control or make sure I
always use a condom.
Luv
danielle
x x x
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 12-17-03 18:34pm
Saturn-
as long as ur at the age of consent,in a
stable & loving relationship & r
sensible & mature enough 2 have a
child,i dont think it matters if ur 16 0r
40 2 b honest! Not every girl thinks u
need 2 'live a bit' b4 a have a baby.For
some girls,being a mom is all the life
they want.Sorry,this is just what I
think!
Liz x
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saturn24
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Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-17-03 23:46pm
You are entitled to your opinion.
However, it is my opinion that whether you
want to live a little or not, you should
wait until after 16. I mean, if it
happens, it happens. And yes, some women
do only want to have kids. But I am
speaking from experience. Every single
one of my friends had kids in high school.
There children are between the ages of 5
and 8. Although they love their children
more than anything in the whole world they
still wished that they would have waited
until they had grown up before raising
another person.
There are many successful teen parents.
There are many who are more successful
than people who waited until they were 40
or older. However, for the love of god,
if you have a choice in the matter, which
she does, you could at least wait until
you graduate from high school or are old
enough to vote. I mean, if you truly
want to bring a child into this world,
don't you want to be able to give it the
best life that you possibly can? I am
not saying that you cannot do that at 16,
but it would be a lot harder to finish
school and get a good job with a child.
Plus, she has her whole life to have a
baby.
But like I said you are entitled to your
opinion and I am entitled to mine.
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user500
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Joined: 24 Sep 2003 Posts: 39 Location: ,
Sparklepixie Posted: 12-18-03 00:48am
What? Please don't encourage a sixteen
year old to purposely get pregnant.
Teenagers are so emotional and indecisive
as it is. How many sixteen year olds are
in a loving long term committed
relationship.One day they could be madly
in love with each other only to brake up
the next. They could feel like they want
to have a baby and then change their mind
a week later, maybe when it is too late.
There is a huge difference between 16 and
40. Do the math!
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user500
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Joined: 24 Sep 2003 Posts: 39 Location: ,
Danielle Posted: 12-18-03 00:52am
You sound like a sweet girl. I hope
everything works out for you :d :d
I am really proud of you for your
decision to use protection from now on.
Keep us posted.
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saturn24
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Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-18-03 01:00am
Thank you heather...
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 12-22-03 20:32pm
U dont bloody know me so dont treat me
like im thick (u cant even spell!!!)i know
theres a difference between 16-40 so dont
patronise.Its a girls own body & she
can get pregnant whenever she wants-these
people dont even know me & if they
were encouraged by me,theyd have 2 b very
pathetic! And also,ive known many,many
16yr olds in long term r/ships.Im 18.5 and
ive been with my boyfriend since I was
15.We plan 2 get married in a couple of
years so yes,i was a 16yr old in a long
term relationship & it is common.Not
all young people r indecisive,some of us
know what we want from life.People can
make their own choices & I dont expect
any1 2 b influenced my what r my (caps)
opinions.
Thank u!!
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-22-03 20:50pm
Who can't spell???
And you are right, anyone can have a baby
whenever they want. And I am glad that
you are happy! But, I will kiss your
feet if there never comes a day in your
life when you are at least a little bit
upset that you didn't get to do certain
things when you were younger because you
had a baby. You may not see it coming
now, and hopefully it never happens to
you. But, I know a heck of a lot of
people who had babies young, and they all
wish they had waited. My dad was 27 when
he had his first kid, my sister, and he
even told me that when I get married and
have children to wait even longer than he
did. There is always time.
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user500
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Joined: 24 Sep 2003 Posts: 39 Location: ,
Posted: 12-22-03 21:04pm
I know how to spell you, be and to... And
what does "thick" mean?
since then I have
had 2 more periods but they havnt been on
time, & when i'm havin them they are
makin me feel very dizzy n I feel as tho
i'm going 2 black out. I have also had a
sharp pain in the side of my stomache next
2 hip. My stomache has gotton a bit
bigger & I have noticed my breasts
gettin bigger @ had very sore nipples.
