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daisydobydoo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Nov 2005 Posts: 8
Becareful Posted: 12-07-05 12:45pm
I understand the excitement you anticipate
in having a three some. My husband and I
always talked about it. We were both
very aroused about the idea. Then one
night we had the opportunity. It was
awesome, for all three of us. Then it
became like an addiction. Every time we
were together for any reason we always
ended up with a three some. I have
learned so much from that experience. Be
very careful who you decide to have a
threesome with. Just like dating, know
who they've been with, have they been
tested for std, are they emotionally
mature for a threesome. Anything can
happen from getting an std to her wanting
your boyfriend, your boyfriend being more
into her than he is into you, you being
more into her than your boyfriend,
anything can happen. Are you ready for
the consequences? If I could rewind my
life I would have chosen not to do it.
Yes, it was fun at the time but it caused
so many problems in my relationship with
my husband. It has been 2 to 3 years and
I am still working on my relationship to
get it back to the way it used to be.
Just be careful.
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niksag03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 13 Location: SC
Posted: 12-07-05 14:46pm
Thank you for responding to my post. Now
I am getting second thoughts about doing
it. My b/f always say it is just
physical and I should not get emotionally
attacked...
He kept stressing on that.
Where did you find this person to have the
3some with?
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realdeal4u
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2005 Posts: 11 Location: MS
Suggestion Posted: 12-09-05 00:03am
My husband and I have discussed this topic
many times and i'll tell you my only
hesitation (other than finding the other
person). I fear that he will enjoy her
more than me and use that as an open door
to exploring without me. I have a
suggestion for you. If this is something
that you are willing to try then you go
out and find the other person. Your
partner doesn't even have to know her name
if you choose. That eased my mind a lot
because the only link he will have to her
is through me. But do respect your
partner for being open enough to discuss
it with you.
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Kiemister
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 136 Location: ,
Conciquences Posted: 01-01-06 04:54am
Yes, there are many emotional and pysical
conciquences, double than just already
having sex with one person. So, be
prepared to face the worst, and keep in
mind, this might cause the loss of your
relationship. My opinion, its not the
smartest thing to do.
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bluedoriangrey
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 2
Posted: 01-07-06 16:28pm
I would suggest... Don't. Two tales.
We did ffm first and though my wife was
happy with me both kinssing and doing it
the other female, afterwards my performing
oral on the other really got to her.
My wife and I tried this mmf with a man we
knew and trusted. Or so we thought.
Though ground rules were established,
including his use of a condom. It got
rather out of control. Taking her from
behind he began to finger her ass roughly.
And then called her filthy things. Then
it got scary I have to say, reallybscary.
Mid penetration he withdrew, pulled off
the condom and ejaculated all over my
wifes vagina before quickly pushing his
unprotected penis into her.
Do not bother I say
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Kiemister
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 136 Location: ,
Posted: 01-07-06 17:44pm
bluedoriangrey
wrote:
i would suggest... Don't.
Two tales.
We did ffm first and though my wife was
happy with me both kinssing and !@#^ing
the other female, afterwards my performing
oral on the other really got to her.
My wife and I tried this mmf with a man we
knew and trusted. Or so we thought.
Though ground rules were established,
including his use of a condom. It got
rather out of control. Taking her from
behind he began to finger her ass roughly.
And then called her filthy things.
Then it got scary I have to say,
reallybscary. Mid penetration he
withdrew, pulled off the condom and
ejaculated all over my wifes vagina before
quickly pushing his unprotected penis into
her.
