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Sicilian05
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Big Problem
Posted: 12-08-05 12:58pm
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It all started 2 years ago when I was 16
years old. I had over masterbated and had
started to develop a rash on my
penis.After that masterbation I was also
pulling on the head of my penis to see if
it would get bigger. Well im not sure if
its because I pulled my penis or I over
worried but now my my penis is not the
same as it used to be. I cannot get my
penis erect without alot of physical
stimulation like thinking of women or sex
has no effect. It has alot less
sensiblility then it used to, its like its
dead. And when it is erect its at 3oclock
instead of straight up like it used to be,
it has a rubbery feeling to it (alot
softer), I have trouble maintaing the
erection and theres alot more visible
veins. It also has a discoloration to it
and on cold days the head of penis gets
cold to the chill.
I get a morning erection like once every 7
months (if im lucky) and when I do its
that retarded eretion I just explained. I
do not know what to do. Ive told this
problem to my dad and he doesnt take it
seriously hes like theres nothing wrong
with you. Please help me im really
worried!!!
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-08-05 16:38pm
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Are you cut or uncut? Do you use lube?
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-08-05 19:17pm
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Im uncut....And no I dont use lube
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-09-05 17:48pm
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That might be what caused the rash. Try
using some lube when you masturbate, it'll
probably keep you from getting a rash like
that.
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gbusc
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Posted: 12-09-05 22:53pm
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Try to restrain from masturbating for 3-5
days and see if your sensitivty and
ability to have a full erection is
restored.
Traditional masturbation should cause
sensitivity death and pulling shouldn't
either. Most likely, your masturbation
has desensitized you temporarily.
So try hold off for as long as possible
and see if your vigor returns.
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-16-05 17:03pm
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Well I stopped masterbating for 5 days n
just yesterday I went to a strip club and
got a 45 min lap dance and.......Nothing I
relaxed and focused in on the girl and
nothing its like its dead its like it cant
get fulled up with blood and I even
noticed I dont get as horny as I used to
get when I had my normal erection :(
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-16-05 17:10pm
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I don't think stopping masturbation for a
few days is going to make any difference
in your case; don't bother restraining
from masturbation....
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-17-05 11:22am
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So what you suggest I do????
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-17-05 16:37pm
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| sicilian05
wrote: | | so what you suggest I
do???? |
don't get me wrong, go ahead and stop
masturbation if you want, but it will make
very little, if any difference.
The ability to maintain and erection and
orgasm is almost completely mental, so you
should be surprised that it takes a lot of
physical and mental stimulation to keep an
erection; you should remember to that as
you grow older the random boners will
become less and less regular...
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-18-05 17:04pm
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Yes I understand that, but im only
17...... And this happened like all of a
sudden since I dont get morning erections
im almost positive theres something
physically wrong with it. Because when I
do manage to get the erection I really
dont think it will penetrate the girl its
alot softer and alot less flexible and not
to mention loss of sensation
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-18-05 21:14pm
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| sicilian05
wrote: | | yes I understand that, but
im only 17... |
i understand....
You might try stopping masturbation, and
sex for a week. Don't think about it and
keep your mind off of it as much as
possible. Be sure to get plenty of
sleep, eat healthy, and exercise, and then
after a week, reasses where you are at...
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-18-05 21:20pm
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Well I go to the gym like 3-5 times a week
n I thnik I get plenty of sleep and its
been 2 years like this I tried not
thinking about it but didnt work :(
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Human
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Posted: 12-19-05 05:33am
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What kinda stretches were you doing like
the ones on the penis enlargement sites?
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impotentyouth
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Posted: 12-19-05 20:34pm
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Man I have been having the exact same
problem for 4 months. The only difference
is that I get horny and get good erections
on some days..And pretty much dead like
you the others. I don't get hard morning
erections either...:((
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-20-05 13:36pm
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^the "hornier" you are the stronger your
erections are gunna be, the less arroused
you are, the weaker your erections will
be.
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-20-05 23:54pm
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Well I had just finished masterbating and
I started to pull my penis from the head
I think I did it after 3
masterbations.....Its like my penis is
carrying extra weight and its harder to
get it erect and when I do manage to get
it erect theres a red mark on the head of
the penis where I pulled it....You dont
know how much this is hurting my self
esteem :(
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impotentyouth
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Posted: 12-21-05 02:43am
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Me too...I so feel you. Now I have
literally no confidence. I don't want to
approach girls at all like I don't have
the ability to. I've also lost confidence
on a lot of other things...Every morning
thinking about my soft penis I don't wanna
get up :(
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-21-05 10:14am
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^^do either one of you masturbate very
frequently? I wonder if you haven't been
giving the chemcials released from your
brain during ejaculation enough time to
replenish themselves..... That can cause
aq mild depression which would likely
leave you with a low self-esteem.....
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Sicilian05
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Posted: 12-21-05 13:06pm
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Actually yes ive been masterbating alot
but this last week took it ez like I wanna
lower it at 3 times a week.......But its
hard cause I dont work and I got school at
night....But whenever I stop masterbating
like for 2 days straight then I masterbate
its like my penis is worse....I cum alot
earlier then im supposed to and my penis
has zero sensiblility like worse then
usual :( well im gonna go to the doctors
tommorow hopefully he can do tests on me
to see what is going on with me cause I
surely got no idea its gonna be very
embaressing but if it means to have my
penis back ill do it :) thx for ur help it
helps talking about it!!
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-21-05 17:04pm
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Good luck and keep us updated!
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