Hi, im kinda new here. Ummm...3 months
ago me n a gurl I kno whur tryin 2 hav
anal sex. I didnt hav a condom but I cud
not get my penis inside of hur. We tried
for about 5 mins top. We didnt hav sex
anal wise, or regular sex. I didnt nut
and I didnt get 2 climax r nethang. But
now she's sayin that she might b pregnant
becus hur period was light and it was
spotting and that mayb prenut proly got n
hur n we whur tryna get it n but im shur
it didnt cus I payed attention 2 wat I was
doin and we didnt hav sex. But now she's
sayin that she mite b pregnant cus she's
having syptoms like: her head's been
hurtin, crampin, back aches, and hur
period has been spottin. N now I dont kno
wat 2 do bcus we didnt hav sex at all but
how cum she is having syptoms??? I need
help, and I feel only god can help but can
sumone plz tell me something 2 help me
feel betta so I want b so stressed out.
Im jus 15 n I dont need a kid n my life.
I kno I was stupid fo wat I did but can
sumone jus plz giv me a word 2 help
comfort me n my time of need. N wat shud
I do about this situation?? How cum she
is having syptoms but we never had sex the
whole time??
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mommy2B06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005 Posts: 150 Location: Texas
Posted: 12-08-05 20:14pm
Are you two together right now? As in
boyfriend/ girlfriend? I dont think she
could be pregnant....
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lds
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Dallas, Tx
Posted: 12-08-05 20:23pm
No we're not 2getha. We was jus good
friends. Its jus dat im realli worried
rite now cus I kno I shudnt hav dun wat I
had dun n im realli beatin myself up bcus
I dont want no babi n I feel dat god is
givin me my consequence but how can dis b
wen we didnt hav sex?? N I jus hope n
pray dat god spare me cus all of this is
left up into his hands bcus I dont kno wat
is 2 do. I hav cried n begged dat god
forgiv me fo everything I hav dun n 2
spare me from havin a babi but its jus
dont im realli worried n im stressin out n
I dont kno wat 2 do...I jus need sum
advice.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 12-08-05 20:33pm
As long as your penis was right near her
vagina(which it was) there is a
possibility--very unlikely but it is
possible.
This quote from medical site on the
internet
Quote:
it is possible to
become pregnant while engaging in sexual
intercourse while fully clothed, if the
man ejaculates and the semen soaks through
the clothing and reach your vagina. You
are at greatest risk if the clothing is
thin and you rub together for a long time
after he ejaculates. Regardless of
whether your bodies are separated by
material, clothing is not a form of birth
control. Clothing does not prevent semen
form entering the vagina. The only
protection from pregnancy is the
consistent use of some form of birth
control, such as "the pill" or condoms.
If semen is ejaculated or rubbed near the
vagina, there is a chance of pregnancy if
some sperm find their way inside the
vaginal canal.
...But cloth that is loosely woven is
more easily penetrable. If you still
have concerns, make sure semen does not
land near the vagina regardless of whether
both of you are clothed; and if that does
happen, change clothes immediately and
rinse yourself off thoroughly.
In practice, however, risks cannot be
ruled out if he ejaculates on or near your
vaginal opening. As long as neither you
nor your partner has any traces of semen
on your hands or other body parts used to
stimulate each other, the risk of
pregnancy should be small. But, say for
example, the male stimulates himself,
ejaculates in his hand, then proceeds to
stimulate the female with his hand; there
is a chance that sperm can find their way
into the vagina.
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lesliepei
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 187 Location: Canada
Posted: 12-08-05 21:20pm
If she's so worried, she should take a
pregnancy test and find out for sure if
she is or not.
Good luck
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hollie686
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 195 Location: USA
Posted: 12-08-05 22:24pm
I highly doubt she is pregnant - but let
this be a lesson. You guys are too young
for that stuff. Maybe she wants to scare
you, I don't know. But there is a chance
of pregnancy if semen was around the
vagina. You don't actually have to have
sex to get pregnant, as fatfamily said.
Have her take a test & go from there.
Good luck.
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Bunyay0444
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005 Posts: 12 Location: endicott
Posted: 12-10-05 12:02pm
Its highly likey shes just scaring
herself. The first time I had sex I was
terrified and I kept thinking I was
pregnant I was sure I was. But I wasn't
at all . Everyone told me I was thinking
about it to much and because I was
stressing so much my body was actually
playing mean tricks on me to make me
believe I was pregnant.
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TracieCasey
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 12-10-05 12:56pm
I agree with the previous poster, she's
probably just scared herself...And if
she's stressing that can make her period
late, or lighter, just different
altogether!!!! Please next time use a
condom. When you do have a child you
want it to be because you are ready and
you wouldn't want that child to feel
unwanted or unloved ya know! Just be
careful next time and is it possible she
has other partners, and if she is pregnant
might it be someone else's? I hope things
have settled down for you and you know now
she's not pregnant and you can move on!
Take care..Let us know how it's going!
Tracie
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leigh10
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 12-10-05 23:38pm
I think it's very unlikely that she's
pregnant. However, you do need to be very
careful because it only takes 1 little
sperm, and those guys are good swimmers!
If she is that worried, then she should
take a test. I know that this may seem a
little rude, but for your own peace of
mind, why don't you buy a test...Take it
to her.....And ask her to take it. Best
of luck to both of you!
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