Please help me and my partner have been
trying for a baby for 10 months now and
still no joy,
i am 18 he is 40 would it be anything to
do with are age differnts.
I done a pregnancy test today and still no
luck please help I really want a baby
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Re: Please Help Posted: 12-12-05 21:18pm
mandy1987
wrote:
please help me and my
partner have been trying for a baby for 10
months now and still no joy,
i am 18 he is 40 would it be anything to
do with are age differnts.
I done a pregnancy test today and still no
luck please help I really want a baby
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ok are you sure this is something that you
want? Umm maybe is not fertail
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 12-13-05 01:41am
Men are fertile until like 90 years old!!!
Lol
much different than women---
i dont think forty would be any problem.
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acoles70
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 191 Location: KY
Posted: 12-13-05 03:09am
You have only been trying 10 months,
relax. It takes normal couples up to 18
months sometimes to conceive.
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perfectdiamond19
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Posted: 12-13-05 14:12pm
dalicialynn
wrote:
that's honestly
disgusting...
yep sure is but who are we to judge.
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mandy1987
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Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: belfast
Disgusting... Posted: 12-13-05 20:35pm
Why do you think this is disgusting?
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perfectdiamond19
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Sorry Posted: 12-14-05 07:50am
I was not trying to be rude. I just feel
that this man is old enough to be your
father. Even if it was an eighteen year
old boy with an older woman, I think its
nasty. Most of the time both people have
low selfesteam. Why would a man of his
age want to be with a child. Unless he
can get anything else. My uncle just
marraid an eighteen year old and he is in
his fortys. I think he is sick. Most of
the time the younger female is looking for
a father figure and ends up getting abuse.
I am not saying this is the case with you
and I am not saying that he or you have
low selfesteam. I am jsut saying this is
how I feel about it. I am not sure how
you met or how you feel for one another.
I am not sure how long you have even been
together. But I am sure that you should
think this over and be 100% positive that
this is what you want. You are still a
child and when you have a baby you have to
grow up real fast. No going out no more
haveing fun and your always going to be
stuck to that person being in your life.
Weather your together or not. You just
need to think about the whole outcome.
Maybe live on your own for a while and get
to know yourself. I am guessing that you
lived with your parnets and went straight
to linving with this older man. Maybe to
escape a bad family life maybe not. A
baby does not make you feel better. A
baby needs more than just love. I pray
you just make the right decision.
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mandy1987
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: belfast
Re:older Posted: 12-14-05 11:51am
And so what he is old to be my father but
its not about age its about love and
nothing else comes into it.
I am ready to have a baby I dont care
about going out at weekends with my mates
I dont do it anyway I have done all
that.
If you have a parner you should no age
doesnt come into it its all about have
much you love that person,
yes I know what I am doing this is what we
both want and I am ready now to be a mum,
i want a child more than anything else I
love my parnter more than life and yes I
am ready now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
