The 1st day of my last period was oct. 8.
I spotted for a day or two a couple of
weeks later when my period should of been.
I also was tired, had period like cramps,
headaches, backaches, and kinda nauseous
at times, and nipples were very sensitive.
I still have all these symptoms just at a
lesser degree than before and I spotted
from dec. 3-9. But nothing before that.
I've took a pregnancy test probably about
a month ago and it was negative. Does
anyone think that I really am pregnant.
I'm just so afraid i'm just gonna be told
when I go to the drs that i'm not pregnant
and that somethings wrong with me :cry: .
I want to be pregnant so bad, that im
afraid I want it too much so god won't
give me my wish :cry:
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soon2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 15 Location: ohio
Posted: 12-12-05 18:09pm
*pats on back* first, calm down, stressing
urself like this cannot be good also if
you stress like this that could be why.
But you should talk to a doc, have you
been tested to see if you can have
children? Or has there been any problems
in the past is that why you are so
worried? If no to both of those I dont
see why you cant have a baby. If yes have
you talked to a doc, there are alot of
opptions, dont think its punismaent, good
things come to good people an you sound
very egar to be a parent. Me an my
fieance wanted a baby very badly, when I
was younger I did alot of pills an drugs
an messed up my body, they said I may not
be able to have kids. I was very upset
when I told him this because he wanted a
faimily, he said we wouldn't worry about
it an we would deal with it later if I
wanted to. So we stopped worring. A few
months later here I am, 2 months pregnate.
Things'll work out, they always do.
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sbslove
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Vail, IA
Posted: 12-12-05 18:19pm
I've only resently started to stress. No
I have not had any tests done. I guess
i'm just concerned cause I was on the depo
shot for 2 1/2 yrs and that can cause u
to become infertile. I know I need to
stop thinking about it and I try but I
guess i'm just afraid i'm not. I need to
just go to the Dr. And get this done and
over with and then i'll be ok.
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soon2b
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 15 Location: ohio
Posted: 12-12-05 18:23pm
Yep thats best thing to do, an hey after
you find out u will quit stressing k? If
you r then that is wonderful if you cant
then u always have other options at ur
disposiale, never give up trying :d
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perfectdiamond19
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Re: Need Some Advice Now Posted: 12-12-05 20:30pm
sbslove
wrote:
the 1st day of my last
period was oct. 8. I spotted for a day
or two a couple of weeks later when my
period should of been. I also was tired,
had period like cramps, headaches,
backaches, and kinda nauseous at times,
and nipples were very sensitive. I still
have all these symptoms just at a lesser
degree than before and I spotted from dec.
3-9. But nothing before that. I've
took a pregnancy test probably about a
month ago and it was negative. Does
anyone think that I really am pregnant.
I'm just so afraid i'm just gonna be told
when I go to the drs that i'm not pregnant
and that somethings wrong with me :cry: .
I want to be pregnant so bad, that im
afraid I want it too much so god won't
give me my wish
:cry:
first of all I understand wanting that
baby so bad you feel like its hopeless.
But I promise you god will not keep you
from becoming pregnant just b/c its what
you want. It just takes time and god has
to feel your ready. I tried for 6 months
exactly b/4 I got pregnant, I looked up so
many things about how to get pregnant that
its not funny at all. So I thought that
since I was not telling my husband that I
was trying to get pregnant that god was
not letting it happen. I felt god wanted
me to be open and honest w/him so I told
him what I wanted and how different
positions could determine the sex fo the
baby. He wanted to know more so I told
him and he got to work on that prefect
little boy that is not due anyday now.
Now if you want somethig too much you may
make your body act like its pregnant. If
you are trying to get pregnant make sure
that you are on bottom most of the time
and do not get right up after you are
finished just lay there and enjoy each
other. Talk if he is that kind of guy or
if he is a sleeper let he drift off to
sleep. Also make sure you are honest with
your partner. And remember that as bad as
you want that baby they are so expensive.
I was thinking that since I am in college
and my husband has a good job, and our
lives are really great, moneys grat, we
have a nice car, and a nice home, I
thought a baby would be simple. Now I
seee that I should have waited just a
little longer , but I love my son more
than life, he is my angel. Just
expensive. Anyways good luck
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perfectdiamond19
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Posted: 12-12-05 20:37pm
sbslove
wrote:
i've only resently started
to stress. No I have not had any tests
done. I guess i'm just concerned cause
I was on the depo shot for 2 1/2 yrs and
that can cause u to become infertile. I
know I need to stop thinking about it and
I try but I guess i'm just afraid i'm not.
I need to just go to the Dr. And get
this done and over with and then i'll be
ok.
girl I did not read this far before I
posted, so depo is shitty. I was on that
since I was sixteen. I got off of it in
august of last year and went on the patch
and stoped that in october, it took six
months for it to clear my system so that I
got pregnant in april. My last period was
march 21. So really yes it takes so much
time when you are coming off that. Just
be patient. It was becasue of all the
waiting that I was like you and I remember
I was like since I wanted a baby so bad
god would never give it to me I was wrong
look at us now. But once you get pregnant
it takes forever to get the little turd
_lol_ here
