Some people can be dilated and still not due for another few weeks heres a list of signs of prelabor and real labor
prelabor
~lightening (baby dropping)
~loss of mucous plug
~dilating (noticed more in subsequent pregnancies)
~braxton hicks(contractions)
~onset on nesting instict
i have had half these symptoms since 25 weeks and from 32 weeks with elisa
labor
~contractions increase in number and intesity (they get more painful) most hospitals in ottawa consider active labor when ur less than 5 mins apart and 2-3cm dilated............
~water broke or whatever you would like to call it
~pressure massive like you need to crap
and I cant think of enything else right now
i have b/h and they hurt like a ^#$% but this is my second so I guess I feel it more