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How to Help Friends.. Posted: 12-13-05 02:59am
In my group of friends at school all seem
to be depressed and resort to cutting,
what should I do? My one friend has hiv
and is constantly breaking up with guy
after guy. I try to help her but whatever
I do or say she dosnt listen. Then theres
my old friend from elementry who never use
to cut until my friend with hiv did, she
at first did it to show the other girl how
it dosnt do much but inflict more pain but
for somereason she also started to do it.
All my friends think I have a perfect life
just because I have a wounderful
boyfriend. But having a great boyfriend
isnt always going to make you 100% happy.
I have problems to, like my familys
divorce that kills me everyday even though
it happend two years ago, but my one side
of family hates the other now, its hard.
I have problems to, I feel depressed to,
but I found a way to make myself feel
better and its not inflicting pain upon
myself, I try to share this with my
friends but they dont listen, how can I
stop them!
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depresija
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Joined: 12 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Makedonija
Posted: 12-13-05 06:27am
I have the same problem. People around me
are saying that I have the perfect life.
They are closed in their world. With so
much bad problems in life people do not
want to listen to nobody. Especially some
one that is telling you how to live your
life.
They don`t know where their guilt starts
and the bad luck stops.
The only way to help your friends is to
stop give advices and start just listen to
their problems. Be the only good thing in
their life and wait for them to see that
you are as sad as they are sometimes.
Patience is the answer. You will see that
is very hard to make a difference. But as
long as you have one person that you could
tell how you fill you will make it.
Sorry for my bad english and take care.
A person is only responsible to the depth
of his soul!
Don`t forget to concentrate to your
life!!! Best regards
