Still a Virgin But Debating On It Please Help Posted: 12-13-05 13:52pm
I have know this a guy named aaron for
about a year I am only 15 about to be 16
(on december 27) and he is 18. I really
like him and he acts like he likes me but
I want to get more intimate with him...I
am being put on birth control in a week so
that when my birthday comes I can be safe
(don't worry I will also use a condom) I
just want some advice if I am doing the
right thing I have always believed in
abstinence but this guy is something
different....And advice or comment???
Sincerely, confused
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Human
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 12-15-05 08:18am
Well if you think this guy is special and
if you guys like each other a lot sex
would be an option. For your first time
you should be with someone that actually
cares about you thats really all that
matters. Just remember for a large
majority of girls sex the first time isn't
that great it even hurts but after awhile
it becomes the greatest thing ever.
well if you think this guy is special and
if you guys like each other a lot sex
would be an option. For your first time
you should be with someone that actually
cares about you thats really all that
matters. Just remember for a large
majority of girls sex the first time isn't
that great it even hurts but after awhile
it becomes the greatest thing ever.
Yes this is true and you will also
remember your first time having sex, so
make sure he really means alot to you.
Good luck
well if you think this guy is special and
if you guys like each other a lot sex
would be an option. For your first time
you should be with someone that actually
cares about you thats really all that
matters. Just remember for a large
majority of girls sex the first time isn't
that great it even hurts but after awhile
it becomes the greatest thing ever.
Yes this is true and you will also
remember your first time having sex, so
make sure he really means alot to you.
Good luck
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holidaycheer01
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 19 Location: Jackson, MI
Posted: 02-01-06 12:05pm
Just make sure you're 100% sure its what
you want. My first time I waited until I
was 21....And ended up doing it with a guy
I really liked but we broke up like 3
weeks later. I regretted it afterwards.
It wasnt even worth it....So like I said,
make sure its right for you.
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 03-14-06 21:25pm
You are not yet sixteen. There are going
to be alot of guys that will come into
your life. Some you will have very strong
feelings for and some you won't. At the
moment your hormones are ruling your
thought process.
If the guy really loves and cares about
you he will wait til you are a bit older
(like eighteen). Also he will show he
cares about you thru his actions like not
pestering you to do anything sexually that
you do not feel ready to do.
You don't want to do something now at this
young age that will regret later because
you thought this guy was special and found
out later he wasn't. So give the
relationship some time and really get to
know each other with your clothes on.
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raven53
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 52
to Still a Virgin Posted: 04-06-06 21:21pm
Remember that your body is very special,
and when you decide to offer it to a man,
you should be sure that he is worth the
sacrifice. So many young girls think
they need to give sex to keep their
boyfriends, but most times in the end,
that is the fastest way to lose them.
They need to respect you, and if you don't
respect yourself, how can they? When you
can get a man to care for you, and not
what's between your legs, then you have
accomplished something wonderful, and that
will make sex well worth it in the end.
Just look around at all the single women
there are in the world. Many have
regrets about the men they wasted their
virginity on, and you will still find a
great deal of men that are uncomfortable
about settling down with "a woman with a
past." good luck, and I sure hope you
save it for the right one! Being a
virgin is something to be proud of, and if
you start having sex now so young, it will
be really hard for you to stop with others
in the future. Giving in to urges like
this can result in low self esteem hen you
find out that mr. Wonderful wasn't so
wonderful after all.
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raven53
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 52
to Still a Virgin Posted: 04-06-06 21:23pm
Remember that your body is very special,
and when you decide to offer it to a man,
you should be sure that he is worth the
sacrifice. So many young girls think
they need to give sex to keep their
boyfriends, but most times in the end,
that is the fastest way to lose them.
They need to respect you, and if you don't
respect yourself, how can they? When you
can get a man to care for you, and not
what's between your legs, then you have
accomplished something wonderful, and that
will make sex well worth it in the end.
Just look around at all the single women
there are in the world. Many have
regrets about the men they wasted their
virginity on, and you will still find a
great deal of men that are uncomfortable
about settling down with "a woman with a
past." good luck, and I sure hope you
save it for the right one! Being a
virgin is something to be proud of, and if
you start having sex now so young, it will
be really hard for you to stop with others
in the future. Giving in to urges like
this can result in low self esteem hen you
find out that mr. Wonderful wasn't so
wonderful after all.
